I need some advice

@Shaun72 (15968)
Palatka, Florida
February 13, 2007 10:48pm CST
This might seem crazy it is to me. My best friend ran into my ex. husband's new wife and she wants to talk to me. I am not sure if I want to or not. She tell's my friend that he is always gone from home and never at home. I think it's funny in a way because she asked for it. What would you all do? Would you talk to her to see what she has to say or inore her?
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• United States
16 Feb 07
I wouldn't run right over there to talk to her. She apparently wants to compare notes. Let her wallow in her sorrows. If you happen to run into her, tell her you are late for something and will have to get back to her.
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@Shaun72 (15968)
• Palatka, Florida
16 Feb 07
I like this I will remember this too if she comes around to my house
@sonnet (165)
• South Korea
15 Feb 07
I know you are curious but please be careful to avoid getting dragged back into a bad situation that you have since moved on from. My advice would be to steer completely clear of this as best you can. A lot can depend on whether you have remained on decent terms with your ex and his new wife and oddly enough on the kind of community you live in, but my general instinct is to say stay right away.
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@Shaun72 (15968)
• Palatka, Florida
15 Feb 07
and your instincts are proberly right and I don't want any more problems we left on ok terms I mean I don't hate him or anything and he wasn't happy with me I understand but I don't need to hear her 2 cents worth.
@maddysmommy (16233)
• United States
15 Feb 07
I would feel really uncomfortable if I was in your shoes. I would probably not go and let her figure out why her husband/your ex is never home. He is your past and its best that it stays that way (but thats just me)
@Shaun72 (15968)
• Palatka, Florida
15 Feb 07
yeah I belive I will besides I can't fight her and she knows that.
@freak369 (5024)
• United States
15 Feb 07
It can't hurt to hear what she has to say but don't give out too much information; like things that he may have done when you were with him in regards to where he goes, if he cheated etc. If he left you to be with someone else or she was 'the other woman' ... well, she is getting a taste of her own medicine. I learned the hard way that if you start a relationship with someone who is already in one and he leaves the other person to be with you, eventually YOU are going to be the one out in the cold. Never trust a cheater .. but that's just my bitter tongue LOL
@Shaun72 (15968)
• Palatka, Florida
15 Feb 07
yeah she's one of the other women lol. I mean if he is I think it's really funny it serves her right.
@vicky19810 (1601)
• China
15 Feb 07
i am sorry to hear this kind of thing,but in my opinion,everything should be clear,so we can recognize all of people.
@Shaun72 (15968)
• Palatka, Florida
15 Feb 07
that is also true but I also think I should just stay clear
@blueskies (1186)
• United States
14 Feb 07
If it were me, I would RUN in the other direction as far and as fast as I could. You already extracted yourself from one relationship with this man, why would you want to get involved in his new relationship? It will only cause hard feelings, with you, most likely, being labeled the troublemaker. Run my friend!
@Shaun72 (15968)
• Palatka, Florida
15 Feb 07
you are right and I proberly sould just leave it all along. I am just curious as to what she has to say I am sorry if he is doing her wrong but he did it to me also.
@mcarps79 (1262)
• Uganda
14 Feb 07
I think atleast we shud listen for atleast once...what exactly the matter is?
@Shaun72 (15968)
• Palatka, Florida
15 Feb 07
I might I divorced him last year because he left me in 2004 I didn't want to stay married to a man I didn't live with and he was never going to divorce me.I feel bad if he is doing this to her but it's funny to in a way.
@PrarieStyle (2495)
• United States
4 Sep 15
I would probably ignore her. She might think you're a threat and wants to see if you're still interested in him. Or, she just wants to drag you into her drama. Personally, I run from drama. If you happen to enjoy it, like many people do, then give her a call.