I need some advice

I wouldn't run right over there to talk to her. She apparently wants to compare notes. Let her wallow in her sorrows. If you happen to run into her, tell her you are late for something and will have to get back to her.

I know you are curious but please be careful to avoid getting dragged back into a bad situation that you have since moved on from. My advice would be to steer completely clear of this as best you can. A lot can depend on whether you have remained on decent terms with your ex and his new wife and oddly enough on the kind of community you live in, but my general instinct is to say stay right away.

i am sorry to hear this kind of thing,but in my opinion,everything should be clear,so we can recognize all of people.

It can't hurt to hear what she has to say but don't give out too much information; like things that he may have done when you were with him in regards to where he goes, if he cheated etc. If he left you to be with someone else or she was 'the other woman' ... well, she is getting a taste of her own medicine. I learned the hard way that if you start a relationship with someone who is already in one and he leaves the other person to be with you, eventually YOU are going to be the one out in the cold. Never trust a cheater .. but that's just my bitter tongue LOL

If it were me, I would RUN in the other direction as far and as fast as I could. You already extracted yourself from one relationship with this man, why would you want to get involved in his new relationship? It will only cause hard feelings, with you, most likely, being labeled the troublemaker. Run my friend!

I would feel really uncomfortable if I was in your shoes. I would probably not go and let her figure out why her husband/your ex is never home. He is your past and its best that it stays that way (but thats just me)

I think atleast we shud listen for atleast once...what exactly the matter is?

I would probably ignore her. She might think you're a threat and wants to see if you're still interested in him. Or, she just wants to drag you into her drama. Personally, I run from drama. If you happen to enjoy it, like many people do, then give her a call.