are you friends with your ex?

Philippines
February 14, 2007 11:08pm CST
i hear different views about this...but personally i had bad experience with my ex and my bf's ex...no right or wrong answers, just need your honest opinion.
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9 responses
@crazy_me (591)
• Philippines
19 Feb 07
I am in good terms with all three of my ex boyfriends. I cannot say that we are friends because we do not see each other anymore. But I am sure that when I cross path with any of them in the future, we would be civil to one another and probably chat for a while. I am lucky that none of my ex boyfriends treated me badly. They were all nice boyfriends. I had been the bad one. Nope, I have never been a two timer. I had been bad in a way that I took them for granted. But I said sorry when I parted ways with each of them.
@aretha (2540)
• United States
15 Feb 07
i am not friends with my ex's but we are not enemies either if we see each other we talk but none really ended bad so theres no reason for us to be bitter with each other. in school one of my ex's was a very good friend but we have gone our own was now.
@Corvin (417)
• Philippines
15 Feb 07
after she did something to me that you might not as well happen to you. we are not friends with my ex.
• Indonesia
15 Feb 07
When I have not make a new relationship with someone else, I still become a friend of my ex. But after I have a new g'frind, I has to make a distance with my ex in order to avoid any missunderstanding with my new one.
@lonewolfnan (4367)
• Canada
15 Feb 07
I hold no grudges against my ex wife.I was hurt by what went down and HOW it went down,but realize now she was doing what she thought was best for her.There is no animosity between us.
@kaydee10 (268)
• Philippines
15 Feb 07
I have never been friends with my ex's because most of them we have a really bad break ups...so i don't know if i can still be friends with them...
@oleinoleo (389)
• Malaysia
15 Feb 07
nope! I dont ever want to have any relationship with them! once we broke-up, its difficult for me to accept it for the first time. but i must try to forget him asap and dont want to remember anything about him. i cant accept him as my friend after what we have together
• Indonesia
15 Feb 07
yeah...I and my ex- are friend now...if we can still have a relationship of friend, why not??? may be someday, we need his help...and maybe he need our helps..
@mememama (3077)
• United States
15 Feb 07
I'm not friends with any of them, our break ups were so bad that I don't ever want to see them again! Some of my friends are friends with their exes, but they had okay break ups, like they realized that they were better off as friends or that they were too young are not ready to be serious. All of my exes but one cheated so it hurt me a lot. I'm so glad I'm married and never have to deal with any of that crap again!