Love is Selfish?

@jigishap (595)
India
February 15, 2007 7:30am CST
I know 90% people will say no way.. But sometimes I think love is selfish because we think about our happiness in love..
5 responses
@svlana (96)
• Russian Federation
15 Feb 07
Real love isn't selfish and if you think about your happiness in love, it is normal, if you are happy you able to make happy your beloved. Difficult to explain... Egoism and healthy selfish feeling are the different things in relationship. I hope you'll understand me. :)
@jigishap (595)
• India
15 Feb 07
Yes, but if your beloved hurt you after some times.. and he continuously hearting you then also you going to love him?
@svlana (96)
• Russian Federation
15 Feb 07
Ummm, well... :)It depends what is he doing, how is he hurting... you know Love is unexplaining feeleng sometimes and you can excuse many things, many things could look illusive. But... If he hurt me knowing - that thing/action is/will hurt me, I could not to be with this man, because it isn't mean for me he really loves me and it isnt Love in its way. It simply kills my Love. Sure, I do not want to be hurt by somebody again and again. Love isn't for. Thank you for your answer and question.
@Jleivang (374)
• India
15 Feb 07
I think you are right. Sometimes, we think only about our personnel feelings and keep everything related to us as our priority. We get selfish and just consider how we feel and not how the person we love would feel after doing or saying something we should'nt.
@jigishap (595)
• India
15 Feb 07
yup. I am really happy that every body here accepting truth and have dare to speak it.
• Saint Vincent And The Grenadines
15 Feb 07
Love is an irrational feeling. That implies that when something gets in the way and is a clog for that feeling, we react irrationally, that is, selfishly. It's not that love is selfish, it is what it is and we all want to be loved and love.
@jigishap (595)
• India
15 Feb 07
well said
@bykenshin (266)
• Brazil
15 Feb 07
Yes, it is, love just mess up our lives sometimes.. :
@jigishap (595)
• India
15 Feb 07
ok.I am agree with you
@didi13 (2927)
• Romania
6 Apr 12
Is love selfish? Each of us must, above all, we respect ourselves ... we love and be loved, to feel love from the other ... We are selfish if we want to share feelings, if we want we loved to devote all ? I think yes, we are selfish in love, even love is selfish.