To cheat or not to cheat

Romania
February 15, 2007 9:41am CST
What would you do if you caught your partener of life with someone else? What would you do if you caught her/him second time?
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6 responses
@bkfuels (1605)
• Canada
15 Feb 07
I would most likely leave after the first time. Because there is an old saying "once a cheater always a cheater".
• Romania
15 Feb 07
But if you really love the person, is not that easy to leave her/him after the first time.
@coolsid2007 (1030)
• India
22 Feb 07
It depends on the specific situations... i mean i would definately not like this behavior but at the same time i would like to find out the reason for taht when it happens for the first time... try to analyse it ... if it happens second time and if they are not in any compromising position... i would like to give just one more chance to her... ofcourse ... i would be furious about it... but yet life being so short and we being humans...i think errors tend to happen from all around us ... including ourselves i wont wait if it happens for the third time for sure
@mememama (3077)
• United States
15 Feb 07
I've been through this before. I was really in love with a boyfriend, and he cheated, I forgave him and thought all was well. He cheated again! I learned that if a man loves you in the first place, he won't cheat. So after that, if a guy strayed and went to another woman, I'd tell him "don't let the door hit you on the butt on your way out loser"!
• Philippines
15 Feb 07
i have thought about that before whether i should cheat as well if ever i caught him cheating. My answer then was, if he can do it i can do it too. I fell that if i cheat as well at least i had my revenge and he would feel what i felt when he did it. But now my point of view has changed. If ever i will caught him cheating i will for give and try my best to trust him again and if it happen again, i will not cheat but most likely his make him feel ashamed of himself for what he did or just leave. I am not going to cheat on him because thinking about it, it doesn't do me any good. i may feel more empty and unhappy at the end.
@crystal8577 (1470)
• United States
15 Feb 07
There would not be a second time to catch him. I am sorry but I am not about to look the other way on cheating. I would not forgive them nor tolerate it. Obviously if they did it a second time then it would be an ongoing thing, no thanks.
@XxAngelxX (2832)
• Canada
15 Feb 07
I would have a hard enough time forgiving him the first time and being able to trust him again. If I did manage to get over it the first time and it happened a second time, the relationship would be over. There's no way I would be able to trust him again after having done it again. Once trust is broken, it's very hard to get past it and be able to trust again.