Girls, why do you sleep with guys when most guys are pigs!

Canada
February 15, 2007 10:56am CST
Got your attention.. Good :) I was just downstairs with the TV on and as I was browsing a came across a show about a young girl (18, 19, 20... doesn't really matter though..) who had become pregnant, but her boyfriend then dumped her because of it. This disgusts me immensely. As I guy, if this happened to me, I'd step up and be a man about it. My questions are this... Girls, why do you still sleep with us when there are so many pigs out there? Guys, are you a pig? would you dump your girlfriend if you got her pregnant? Would that thought even cross your mind?
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36 responses
@yanjiaren (9050)
15 Feb 07
what a man lol..i haven't ever had loose relations or one night stands but i think a lot of girls do it cos they lack self confidence and they think that if a man is interested in them sexually that boosts their confidence...they don't realise that most men are only looking for a hole to shove it in excuse my french..they would screw a goat if it was in front of them..and the men act like this cos they think it boosts their ratings as studs..pathetic..i agree with you man!
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• Canada
15 Feb 07
LOL... Thanks for your feedback. I'm sure there are plenty of men who would screw a goat if it was legal... I agree that a number of girls might want a self confidence boost, but why don't they realize there are so many guys who just need somewhere to put it? Are they just naive???
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@Melda1 (44)
• Canada
15 Feb 07
From a girls point of view I'll say this; Women are always attracted to the 'bad boys', the ones there mother's told them to stay away from them. Thats why so many girls, women etc, sleep with men who would dumb them in a heartbeat if they became pregnant. An interesting book was written about women who choose to take up with bad boys called, 'Women Who Run with the Wolves' explains a lot about the female psyche. I would say to all my fellow ladies out there, yes have fun with the bad boys, just take precautions, because when the chips are down, they will usually leave. Unless of course you find the exception to the rule, the bad boy who's a gentlemen underneath.
• United States
15 Feb 07
As a woman, I can say from first-hand experience; women do *not* "always" go after bad boy-types. Quite frankly, I don't understand women who do. Those kinds of people (the "bad boys") seem to have no personality or depth to their character and are therefore, boring. I don't get it. As for the intial topic; What do you concider "being a man" about the situation? Helping with the pregnancy/baby, or getting married immediately?
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@Marie2473 (8519)
• Sweden
15 Feb 07
there are alot of pig out there who do almost anything to get inside your pants, but it is also up to us woman to learn how to recognize those pigs. my bf and I have been together for a year and I know that he thinks that t is to soon for us to have a child, however IF i got pregnant by accident he would for sure take his responsibility and step up and be a man...
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• Canada
15 Feb 07
So true.. It really is a two way street when it comes to being responsible. Thanks for your feedback! :)
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@owlwings (39996)
• Cambridge, England
15 Feb 07
To answer your questions: 1) Girls prefer to sleep with men rather than pigs because men are at least human. Pigs make very committed and caring parents but not very good bedfellows for the average girl. 2) If I got a girl pregnant, I would be proud to have fathered a child and would be very distressed if the girl turned round (as is quite often the case) and said she wanted nothing more to do with me. In that respect I agree with the father of my grand daughter.
• Canada
15 Feb 07
1) I'm not sure why more girls don't sleep with pigs then. Are you aware that male pigs are corkscrew shaped??? 2) Good to see that not all men are human pigs:) Thanks for the feedback...
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• Nigeria
15 Feb 07
it's a barbaric act from guys, and i don't know why?i can't denie/dump my girl, simply because she's pregnant for me.
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• Canada
15 Feb 07
I agree with you there. It is a pretty selfish thing to do. Thanks for your feedback!
• Brazil
16 Feb 07
Hey, not all of us are pigs! And no, I wouldnt dump any girl over that.
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• United States
16 Feb 07
good guy here!
• Canada
16 Feb 07
Good answer... thanks for the feedback!
• Canada
16 Feb 07
Relax dude. Guys who tend to do such things don't give warning that they will dump the girl the moment she gets pregnant so obviously the girl is oblivious to that. no girl could be found near a guy if she knows what he after.
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• Canada
16 Feb 07
LOL.. isn't it fun just to start a conversation to see where it ends up? ;)
• United States
16 Feb 07
STEFAN You got it! Women\girls think all guys have the capacity to LOVE but many don't. They will say anything to get whatever...and women\girls don't realize they are being used....even older guys do it.
• Philippines
16 Feb 07
well, its just the sad fact bout life. some guys are pigs, though not all. and some girls are stupid, though not all too.
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• Canada
16 Feb 07
Good point. There are plenty of stupid people around :) Thanks for the reply!
• Philippines
16 Feb 07
all i can say is, it's a matter of choice. it's just like saying why would you date a pretty hot queen b*tch, right? i don't see the need to categorize here but there are Men who are Pigs in their own right but still the question remains, why? simply because some women chose to do that, wanted to do that. we're always given choices and what we pick is what usually affects the outcome.
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• Canada
16 Feb 07
Thanks for your reply. Isn't choice a wonderful thing. As along as we act and take responsibly with whatever the outcome is, choice is a good thing! BTW, welcome to myLot ilovewasabi... Is there really such a thing as wasabi flavored popcron??? :=)
@limitup (324)
• United States
16 Feb 07
From a "good" guy's perspective, I don't give the time of day to girls that have been around the block, despite what the movies and MTV tells me is cool. The girl I will marry will be a VIRGIN, and she'll be very glad she waited, both financially and emotionally.
• Canada
16 Feb 07
Thanks for your feedback. :) One question though. What if you meet someone, fall in love and then find out she's not a virgin? Is she dumped? Or wouldn't it get to this stage?
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@limitup (324)
• United States
16 Feb 07
I don't let it get to that stage. I can tell what their intentions are after the first date or two by where their eyes wander, conversation topics, flat-out asking, watching how/if they flirt, family background, do they lie?, lots more. If you're aware, you can figure it out. Perhaps I come off as being a rude or judgemental prick, but I just find that the best girls out there are the ones who can wait for marriage and who have higher morals.
• United States
17 Feb 07
Are you still a virgin? Or is this the old double standard? Just curious if you have held yourself to the same rigid code of ethics as you expect from the woman.
@ronita34 (3923)
• Canada
16 Feb 07
I agree that you are referring to the little boys of our world and real men in fact do step up to the plate in the end. My daughters father was hard to persuade to make my girls a constant part of his life. It was well worth it though as he takes them as often as he can now and he is a great father. Children need their Fathers in their lives as much as their mother!
@ronita34 (3923)
• Canada
16 Feb 07
Oh yea and i do not sleep around i am a single mother and have been single now for over three years!
• Canada
16 Feb 07
Thanks for sharing your story. It's good he stepped up and took responsibility for his actions, even if it took a little pressure from you ;-)
@emendblu (94)
• United States
1 Mar 07
this confuses me to no end. both sexes do it and it is really irritating when you see it happen then the party that has been dumped acts like it is a surprise, people use other people. The ones who get used are just asking for it, and the ones who use them are usually just jerks but that was apparent from the beginning anyway so its hard to feel sorry for anyone.
• Canada
1 Mar 07
I wasn't going to respond right now, cause I have work to do, but this is a great answer so here I am putting work second ;) You are totally right! Thanks...
@sunshinecup (7881)
19 Feb 07
Because no matter how mean and how big of jerk they are, many know how to talk the talk and it works like magic. I have seen some real low lives that could get any girl by knowing just what to say and how to say it.
• Canada
20 Feb 07
That is so true.. I've known guys that have this "skill" and who abuse it immensely :(
• Philippines
16 Feb 07
i think hormones has it's effect on people, they tend to rush into things thinking this is perfect for them, idealistic i guess during this age only to find out later on they made a mistake.... for guys... hormones plays a big part.....well sleeping w/ as much as they could to feed their ego, playtime, but when reality bites they run like freed horses to the wild. for guys leaving their girlfriends because she's pregnant means they're not man enough.. they're just did it for the high.
• Canada
16 Feb 07
Good point, seems to many people act first, and then wonder why the are pregnant, or there girfriend is, or they have a STD... Thanks for your feedback!
@led0721 (48)
• Philippines
16 Feb 07
The reason most girls would sleep with a guy is either out of love, lust, or curiosity. For whatever reason they have, there should be one thing that they keep in mind, make sure it's protected lovemaking they're having to avoid and prevent bad circumstances.
• Canada
16 Feb 07
I guess you response sums up the reason's people sleep with each other.. :) Thanks for your reply!
@joodzki6 (596)
• Philippines
16 Feb 07
those guys are really pigs!!!! sometimes you can't blame girls going with the guy they love...maybe because of too much love, some girls are really giving up everything for the man. I know it's not that good..but people have different belief and we have to respect them. But they should be responsible for everything they've done...for the guys who run for responsibilities...go to hell!!! for girls, who was the victim...move on, go for the baby and raise it. and be careful next time, think 100 times before giving up what you've got.
• Canada
16 Feb 07
Thanks for your reply and great advice :)
@Zo0mZo0m (1357)
• United States
16 Feb 07
yes, it makes me very angry as well. Low self-esteem plays a major role in the choices that women make in choosing their mates. When the woman has high standards and good moral values then her judgement is clearer and she makes sound choices. She eithers chooses someone on her level or higher.
• Canada
16 Feb 07
I personally think it is less to do with morals, are more to do with taking responsibility for you own actions; which actually is a moral not that I think about it, so you win :) Thanks for your feedback!
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@anup12 (4180)
• India
16 Feb 07
Ha ha what a dicsussion lol.Surely that is going to trun a few heads for sure.It is really very surprising but what to do.By the way all men are not pigs.
• Canada
16 Feb 07
That's true.. not all men are pigs. Hope you enjoyed reading all the interesting responses. Thanks for the reply!
• United States
16 Feb 07
It's hard to say some girls think the guy loves her until he get's her in the sack and knock her up. Then the guy is gone faster than the speed of light. But you are the first guy to amit some guys are pigs but you are right some are.
• Canada
16 Feb 07
Thanks for your feedback. Reading a few other responses, there are other guys who think the some guys are pigs, so I'm not the only one :)
@cutepenguin (6457)
• Canada
16 Feb 07
Well, before I got married, I think I'd have said - because it's fun for girls, too. And "bad boys" are a bit more fun and a bit more of a challenge, for some reason.
• Canada
16 Feb 07
Thanks for your reply. So bad boys are more fun... that makes sense, but more of a challenge? Or is the challenge to make them good boys? +
@rajikoshy (743)
• India
16 Feb 07
i am a man, been in love for almost 12 years but never got her pregnant, but later married her, i dont agree that all men are pigs, and all girls will just sleep with all men untill and unless they are not brought up well...
• Canada
16 Feb 07
Congratulations... 12 years is a long time. :) You are right, of course, that not all men are pigs, but I don't agree that bringing a girl up right, will prevent her from sleeping with all men. People can be brought up right and still rebel. Thanks for your feedback.. :)+
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