Have you ever...?

United States
February 15, 2007 9:32pm CST
Have you ever loved someone so deeply it hurts? Have you ever stayed up to watch the sunrise? Have you ever run through the rain? Have you ever talked on the phone all night long? Have you ever laughed so hard you peed your pants? What life experiences have you had that you think everyone should eperience at least one?
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16 Feb 07
Yes. I've lost one person i loved. Who truly enjoyed crushing my heart but it only makes you stronger as a person and chances are she'll be un happy now and i'm enjoying life with my beatiful wife and son. They mean the world to me and the only good thing about the person who did this was the fact she did. i wouldn't of met my wife and i wouldn't be in love with the right person. Kudos! ~Joey
• United States
16 Feb 07
That's great to hear that you had a happy ending. I'm still waiting for mine, but I'm glad you came out better for the ordeal. And I agree that everyone should have their heart broken. It's horrible, but one of those necessary experiences in life that help to make us each a decent person. Best of luck to you and your wife!
• United States
16 Feb 07
Good questions! Yes, I've loved someone so deeply it hurt. It still hurts even though he cheated on me and married the other girl. Although, I've found out so much junk about him that she can have him. But in spite of it all, I still think a part of me will always love him. Yes, I've stayed up to watch the sunrise. That's such a beautiful experience if you're sharing it with someone you really care about. Yes, I've run through the rain. I live in Seattle, so this is a frequent occurence! I don't know that I've ever talked on the phone all night long, and I've never laughed until I peed in my pants. I think everyone should have their heart broken. You think it will kill you, but when you live through it, I think it makes you a stronger, kinder, and more empathetic human being. Maybe you should even have your heart ripped out by a jerk so that you can truly appreciate the good people in your life.
@jhrcsr (349)
• United States
16 Feb 07
Okay, Yes I have loved someone so deeply it hurt. I ended up marrying him. Up all night and watch the sunrise? Yep, quite a few times actually. When we were younger we could stay up all night, then function all day. Now that we are getting older, we can't do that anymore, but it was fun while it lasted. Run through the rain? Oh yes, still do that too. We had 27 outdoor shows last year, and it rained at probably 20 of them. I would just go walking in the rain. It is cleansing to me both mentally and physically. Talked on the phone all night? Yes, to my hubby when we were dating quite often actually. My parents didn't care for him so he would call after they were in bed and we would talk for a long time. Laughed so hard ... peed pants? Nope, not that one, but I know it happens to people. Life experiences that someone should have? Hmmm, good one. THIS IS IN NO WAY DIRECTED AT ANY PERSON IN PARTICULAR ---- I thought I should clarify that as I do not wish for anyone to think I am singling them out...I am not. -----I think everyone should have to experience relying on someone unconditionally and wholely even for a short period of time. And not their parents. Such as, being ill and having to have a caregiver or being destitute and relying on the kindness of a stranger to help you. This could breed tolerance in today's society. Though, not everyone needs this education, as some people do "get it" and understand that things happen that are beyond a person's control but affect their life and their family's life greatly. It's just that I can't seem to figure out why some people are so against a person who does need help from time to time, who recognizes that fact, and who has the guts to ask for that help. Yes, some people do cheat the system, I'm not saying they do not....but not everyone does.
@Island_Geko (3760)
• Canada
16 Feb 07
I am with a guy I care deeply, so deeply that even on days away from him it make my heart lonely, I have stayed up many time to watch the sunrise, but prefer the sunset, I would like to have talk to a friend all night but my phone's battery can only haandle certain hours. Yes I have laughed so hard I was flat of the floor but never peed my pants, just could not breath. I think that all people should experience their faults in life and work from them and within them and not have other people fix them for them.
• Canada
16 Feb 07
that you should learn how to love deeply and be loved unconditionally.. enough said.