Do you love or Are you loved?

Philippines
February 16, 2007 4:22am CST
Who will you choose, the one you love or the one who loves you?
3 people like this
11 responses
@00fear (3211)
• United States
18 Feb 07
i wish i had someone who loves me instead of just me loving people. i really choose the one who loves me.
@Eisenherz (2911)
• Portugal
18 Feb 07
Try making a facial upgrade and people might start liking you, heh.
• India
16 Feb 07
I would choose the one whom I love.I would justify my answer saying I am not greedy about getting someone's love.If a person loves me,fine let him love me,that doesn't mean I would leave someone whom I love!I would give him my love and make him feel special and loved.Its not always about being loved,loving someone also makes you feel really good from within.Therefore I would choose the person whom I love so that he would be with me and I can always keep loving him forever!
• Philippines
16 Feb 07
but the problem is he won't change his mind about loving your bestfriend, for example. YOu're head over heels obsessed with him but he won't give a damn about you. What would you do? Still love him or run to the one who loves you?
16 Feb 07
I think in a relationship you both need to love each other. There is no point in it being one sided as one of you will never be completely happy and will be wondering if there was something better out there for you.
• Philippines
16 Feb 07
but then in life you can't always have the best of both worlds. For example, you love a married doting-husband man, but he doesn't give a damn about you. And there's someone waiting in the wing, trying to make you see how blinded you are by the first. What will you do?
@Eisenherz (2911)
• Portugal
18 Feb 07
I love Jesus but he doesn't loves me, he says he's too busy loving other people :( WHY ME, WHY ME.
@superbren (856)
16 Feb 07
i think in a lot of cases the one who loves you is picked . it is a matter of self preservation. if someone is having an extramarital affair and they are crazy about that person they still will rarely leave the ONE who loves them .. i.e their husband. their ultimate security depends on them being sure of the persons love.
@yanjiaren (9050)
16 Feb 07
well i have never had the experience of being loved more than i have loved..so i can't say exactly..deep down i think i would love to be loved more than i love..i would feel more secure then i think..that would be any girls' dream don't you think?
@fariawala (119)
• Pakistan
16 Feb 07
both :)
• United States
16 Feb 07
I don't think I would choose either, because the way you have this worded, they are both one sided. I don't want to be with someone who doesn't love me back, or who I don't love back. I want a two way street.
@TerryZ (22083)
• United States
16 Feb 07
Im glad Im loved at least I think Im loved. I will always choose the one that loves me for who I am.
@rainbow (6763)
16 Feb 07
Both, ha-ha, took me a minute to figure that out. I am loved and I do love. I would choose the one who loved me, there is nothing more special than being loved.
@teison2 (5924)
• Norway
16 Feb 07
The one who loves me