married?

United States
February 16, 2007 7:12am CST
what the thing that starts most of your arugments?is it money,looking at other people,are not paying attention to your partner?
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• United States
16 Feb 07
We don't really argue... i know thats hard to believe but we just dont. In three years of marriage we've only had one really good argument.... lasted maybe an hour. It was mainly because I felt like I was'nt getting enough attention....I'M INCREDIDLY SPOLIT! LOL
16 Feb 07
Honestly my wife and i don't argue. We do however moan and joke with each other but we never start fights or call each other. to much respect for that and we have a young baby with us most of the time. which wouldn't be good. arguments aren't really needed. as i find it's better to talk. =) Kudos. ~Joey
@brihanna (381)
• United States
16 Feb 07
Most of our argument start when we are both tired. They could be about anything, but I think it is when we are both thinking differently. Because we do. And we are both stubborn, and want each other to think and feel as we do. Also, I am a woman, sometimes when I talk to my husband, he minimizes how I feel-tries to fix my problems, or tells me not to worry-it invalidates what I am saying, and then I get upset. Men and women are sometimes just too different to see eye to eye.
@teison2 (5924)
• Norway
16 Feb 07
The things that most often starts our arguments are issues that deal with respect and attention to the other ones wishes. Like not being listened to. Like one not treating the other ones things with care. One continually do something that the other one really dislikes. basically lack of respect for one another