beautiful or useful..
February 16, 2007 8:16am CST
what would you prefer to be? doolly bird and just adored by men? or useful and needed by men? lol men do you go after women who are juust beautiful? or you prefer a girl that is talented and deep? i suffered alot and always worked hard for what i got seeing all the dolly birds get everything ofr doing nothing .just existing.. is that fair?
• Marion, Kansas
17 Feb 07
Remember, beauty is in the eye of the beholder. It is a lot of work to maintain that beautiful status, and provides for a lot of insecurity if you think your beauty might be slipping. Each of my husbands has loudly proclaimed my beauty, but I was not ever really convinced. You know what you think the dolly bird types have, but do you count your blessings for what you have?
16 Feb 07
i prefer beautiful and useful at the same, which i think i am right now.ehehehhe. beauty really matters at first because that is what you visually look at, but later on, it's the deep down beauty that matters.
• United States
16 Feb 07
You know, I've never been a dolly bird and I never will, lol.. but i sure would like to at least feel adored by someone, someday. Needed would be good enough, if it were needed in a loving way, lol! I tell you, I just want someone to look at me like I'm beautiful, whether the rest of the world thinks so or not! *laugh*