Do you live with a possesive partner? do you like it that way?
By coolsid2007
@coolsid2007 (1030)
India
February 16, 2007 1:49pm CST
I came across an interesting conversation the other day when i was travelling through train ... there was a couple sitting at the corner of the seat right infront of me and they were fighting because wife felt that his husband is not at all possesive about her... though i understood her point but i think not all married couple or a couple in a relationship would think the same way.../
please give your opinions
thanks sid
2 responses
@kalpan_vasa (324)
• India
18 Feb 07
I don't see anything wrong in being possesive about your partner. I believe that anything happend in its own limit is good in every sense.
Anything excessive is harm.
If you love someone, possesiveness towards him/her will surely to come itself. If you love someone, you surely like to take care of him/her in all the situations and this way possesiveness comes into the picture. So, nothing wrong in this.
But, if it crosses its limit, the other person starts feeling uncomfortable. Each person needs its own space in any relationship. The more you become possesive about your partner, the more you hurt his/her freedom. No one would ever like that.
So, I think possesiveness is in fact good for any relationship untill it does not affect the other person's freedom and self respect.
