7 year itch

February 16, 2007 4:54pm CST
my father-in law bless his sole had a sayin fir the first 7 years you could eat ity for the rest of your life you wished you had how true is this, what are your views are you stuck in a marriage you would like to get out of , why do you stay together , is it the security or the fear of the unknown or are you prepared to take a challenge ?
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@ESKARENA1 (18299)
16 Feb 07
i think a lot of people stay in marriages they are unhappy with because they are scared of upsetting anybody. I think someone who has been downtrodden all their lives may well feel a dysfunctional marriage is all they deserve from life. IT IS NOT TRUE. Emancipate yourself from mental slavery, its your life
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16 Feb 07
none but our selves can free our minds yeahhhhhhhhhhhhhh
• United States
16 Feb 07
I think if you get married and aren't sure that the person you are marrying itsn't the one, then you shouldn't get married, if you just marry them anyway without letting your feelings be known, then you deserve to be miserable :P.
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• United States
17 Feb 07
im not gonna say im stuck in a marriage i cant get out of im just in an unhappy marriage i dont want to leave i just want it to get better but at times i dont think it is but im not gonna say i want a divorce ima keep tryin until i cant try no more
18 Feb 07
thanks for the input, if something is worth saving then fight for it, you dont say how long you've been married, I think you know in your own heart when it's not going to work tc good luck xx