Are You Teaching Your Child Bad Eating Habits?

@kathy77 (7486)
Australia
February 17, 2007 10:19am CST
Hi Friends and members, are You Teaching Your Child Bad Eating Habits? You're constantly telling your child that eating right is important. But if you're not practicing what you preach, chances are neither are your kids. Research shows that some parents inadvertently teach kids to ignore their body's cues. Parents who exhibit erratic eating habits are probably guided in their own eating by more external factors. Parents who alternate between severe dieting and bingeing have children more likely to be overweight. On the flip side, children who have food-conscientious parents are least likely to have gained weight throughout childhood. Bad eating habits are not irreversible. Erratic eaters should begin to deal with their food issues, while trying to make healthy foods available for their children.
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@gullu1562 (216)
• India
17 Feb 07
I agree with you parents must be very carefull and thanks for at least putting up this discussion so that sensible parents will have a deep thinking and implement their innovation on the above subject
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@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
17 Feb 07
No I have taught my Children good Eating Habbits and I can take them anywhere, even as Children they knew how to behave. I could take them to Restaurants and to any public Olace to eat.
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@weemam (13372)
17 Feb 07
none of my three boys are fat I am so glad to say ( I am cuddly as you know )when I was little my mum used to tell me I had to eat everything on my plate because there were some people in the world who had nothing to eat and I should appreciate that . If I were good I got a reward , usually Sweet's I had a brilliant mum ( still have ) but that was the way then , I never tell my grandchildren to finish what they have as I now think it is good to know when you have had enough xx
@superbren (856)
17 Feb 07
oh you are so right in this post. we do it without even thinking.i know i yak about losing a half a stone to my daughters who are at an impressionable age . it is very foolish of me . howver i am a very healthy eater and i do tell them that starving themselves will destroy their bodies longterm. i also tell them i will give up eating junk in order to lose that few pounds, not starve myself.i know i shouldnt even mention it in the first place , its just so easy to say the wrong thing in front of kids.
@vish246 (75)
• India
17 Feb 07
no way , no one wants to do so my friend
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@ibusann (36)
17 Feb 07
No, I never taught my children bad eating habits, either in what they ate, or in their manners. However I am appalled at the lack of manners on display in public these days. How can you teach a child today not to talk with their mouths full, when they see it on TV and in films all the time? I've always said that food must be cut up so that the portion fits into your mouth, the other day I was in a restaurant and an adult (in his twenties) put some food in his mouth, but it was hanging out till he bit it and it fell back on his plate. Gross! Put me off my own meal. Chewing with your mouth open is another one that seems to have fallen by the wayside. Believe me, I have NO interest in seeing what you are masticating! Nutrition and healthy eating seem to have fallen out of favour for fast foods and unhealthy rubbish. All in the name of instant gratification and convenience. Nobody seems to want to eat real home-cooking any more. Fruit? What's that? Vegetables? You mean chips and mushy peas? Arrrrrrrgh!!
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@_hope_ (3902)
• Australia
17 Feb 07
I have always taught my kids to eat healthy and i do to the only problem being is that i only eat when i`m ungry and thats where the problem is as that may only be once every three days but thats how i have been for years ,Ever since i was first diagnosed with coliac disease i was so sick of feeling sick all the time that i worked out i felt better if i didn`t eat and i have been that way eversince
@marciascott (25529)
• United States
18 Feb 07
that's good keep up the good work!
@rudz11 (163)
• Philippines
18 Feb 07
since we were young my parents teach us to eat in a very good manner, specially when we are outside our house, and with guest, coz this is the way it will reflect what you are inside you as a person.
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@KrisNY (7590)
• United States
18 Feb 07
I posted a question about how to get my daughter to eat healthier a bit back--- This one hits home... I try to eat great! But there are times when I eat junky-- wings, pizza. etc. We don't diet or binge eat... But I am always saying you have to make healthy food choices and then sometimes I don't. It's easy right-- Keep the food out of the house- Most nights at least 6 out of the week- we sit down to a great planned meal- veggies, meat, salad.. but we order out 1 and have greasey food- wings, mozz. sticks, etc... This is a great post!
@Aloeli (398)
• Portugal
18 Feb 07
i don't have kids
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19 Feb 07
I try to eat healthily around my kids to show them a good example. If I am going to eat dessert or chocolate I have it after they have gone to bed so they don't know that I am having it. However it is unusual for me to do this. I like to be healthy as well.
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@byfaithonly (10698)
• United States
17 Feb 07
I know this is very true but must admit I am quilty. I have the worst eating habits in the world and have passed them on to my children, my youngest particularly. We eat when we want: not on a schedual, we eat what we want: not always healthy.
• China
18 Feb 07
Your words're really helpful.Thank you!
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• Malaysia
18 Feb 07
I guess it is true that children follow their parents' lead. After all, who else would they look up to - if not their primary caregivers. Eating is an important social skill and can be acquired if parents make it a habit to sit down and eat together at scheduled times, provide a healthy varied diet but at the same time let children be independent. Let them dictate their hunger and food preferences. I worry about my daughter (who is 16 months old) who grows in and out of food fads, ferocious appetites and sudden attachments to her bottle. Motherhood can be a little confusing but turns out there is no A-Z enclyclopedia on how to do it! Makes things harder...
18 Feb 07
LOL Unfortunately it's trial and error. But they are soooooo worth it.
@marciascott (25529)
• United States
18 Feb 07
watch what you say and do around your kids, they pay attention to everything.
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• India
18 Feb 07
why does parents teach their own children bad eating habits i think that no parent will do so because no parent wants their child to be spoiled
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• India
18 Feb 07
Thanks for that alarming news and situation prevailing nowadays. I myself am not married as yet but this information can help me also and also would be helpful to me in future.. We can see a lot of erratic eating habits which are resulting into various disorders like obesity or low nutitional disorders. So this matter is to be looked upon in a serious manner and a wholesome food should be made available specially to chldren to ensure a balanced growth..
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• United States
18 Feb 07
well right now my son is almost 5 months old, and he eats his baby food and drinks juice and formula, but as soon as he starts eating with me and my husband we are changing. i have actually started changing already. i eat way less junk food and have a no soda rule in my house. all we have to drink is juice, water, flavored water, milk, and tea. i am glad to see that fast food resturants are now offering more healthier foods like apple slices and milk or yorgut and juice.
• United States
18 Feb 07
i love fast food. however i don't eat it often. people are fat more by genetics than by their food choices, but eating right is important for other factors. looking at me, you wouldn't know how i eat. i've a lousy genetic profile and the meds i take to survive makes the problem worse. however, my parents taught me well.
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• Indonesia
18 Feb 07
I think I never teaching the child bad eating habits
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