How do you take revenge ?

Turkey
February 17, 2007 4:36pm CST
My girlfriend cheated me with somebody else yesterday. After she called me and explained everything. I am very angry now. If you were me, how do you take the revenge ?
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@gehaste (342)
• Romania
17 Feb 07
if she told you what she did..then she still cares for u..don't ruin that.She has no obligation to you..she's free to do whatever she wants with her life.if u still love her..don't harm her
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• Turkey
17 Feb 07
still i love her =((
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• United States
17 Feb 07
Well if you really want revenge then date her best friend and break up with her. Or date someone that is closed to her, and she will always have to see. Or stand her up on a date, either way. I wouldn't really try to get revenge I would just leave her.
@gehaste (342)
• Romania
17 Feb 07
or this :D
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@simplysue (631)
• United States
19 Feb 07
You don't take revenge. What you do is either try to work things out if you feel you can ever get passed the fact that she cheated and trust her again or mourn the loss of this relationship and then get on with your life. You will meet someone someday that will love you for a lifetime if things can't be worked out with this woman that you love now. You may be angry at the moment and want to hurt her as she has hurt you but believe me when I tell you that it won't make you feel any better about what happened and you will regret any attempt to gain revenge in the end. I'm sorry you got hurt my friend.Hugs to you.
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@jricbt (1455)
• Brazil
21 Feb 07
If I were you I would : First, ignore her, totally, no talk, nothing, even if you happen to meet each other in the street, avoid her, if she talk ignore her. Second, Give back every single gift she gave you, and do not accept back any gifts you gave her. Third, do not talk with you friends about her, if they bring the subject, change the matter, until they notice that you will not talk about her. Fourth, she is not part of your life anymore, let she know and suffer from it. Hate, Rage, all this can be reversed, ignoring her coldly will hurt, and hurt like hell, because she will fell like a disposable thing, without value. I did it, over 10 years ago, and it worked.
@cheenlly (3483)
• Philippines
20 Feb 07
its not that easy as it will more hurt you. i was cheated by my ex-bf before and i really want a revenge just to make me feel better but i couldnt. well i guess just let the fate and time to take the revenge for you. Somebody told me that the best revenge is to be successful and happy and someday when you have that and you have move on and your girlfriend saw you she will be really hurt and regret and she will be really disturb and feel the pain that you feel right now. So move on and show to her that she is not worth it and its not your lost its her.