Falling inlove with a lesbian.. What should i do?

@vertex (803)
Philippines
February 18, 2007 9:38pm CST
I am getting sick this times.. Ive fallin in love with a lesbian and i dont know why.. Can you help me pls
10 responses
• United States
15 Feb 08
hi james! ehehhe:) about this 1 year ago- topic..let me share you what my thoughts.. i dont think falling in love with a lesbian is a problem..why?! because if the girl loves you too then she'll give up being a lesbian..and turn to be a girl whom she really is..what's the problem is if the lesbian doesnt have any feelings...and if you dont know, its better to ask her..and if she says no, then *in my own opinion* better look for another girl..:)
@stacyv81 (5906)
• United States
12 Mar 07
Just remember you can't change people, so try & if she is truly a lesbian, then accept it & move on, but you don't want to regret not trying.
@vityota (880)
• India
12 Mar 07
hey come one just face it dude.. i knw u must be feeling sick but if you truly love her than give her the time and be patient with her she will change for your love
• United States
12 Mar 07
If she is a lesbian, then there is nothing you can do. Most lesbians don't switch from being a lesbian to straight and those that do are called bi s e xual. It wouldn't hurt to ask if she'd ever go on a date with you but I think that you need to look for love somewhere else... Maybe you fell a little in love with her because you know that you can't have her? Just a thought. If you are truly in love with her, all you can do is tell her... but prepare to be disappointed because her heart doesn't lay with men.
@LeXDei (209)
• Philippines
22 Feb 07
There is nothing wrong falling in love with a lesbian as long as what you feel is genuine. Love knows no gender. If you are really in love with her, then go!!! Love is fair in love and war! LOL!!!!
@howard96h (11596)
• New York, New York
22 Feb 07
Sorry but there is nothing you can really do. You said she is a lesbian and you have to respect that. The same way you are not physically attracted to men well neither is she. Accept her as a friend.
• United States
21 Feb 07
Love is a beautiful thing, you really never know when and why it happens, it just does. I would talk to your friend and tell her how you feel. Don't be offended if she doesn't feel the same way. Her interests lie else where.
@maryannemax (12176)
• Sweden
19 Feb 07
it just proves that love is really unconditional, right? well, i hope that you two really get along well and that you can talk to her about your feelings without hurting her and getting hurt in return. it's a tough situation you are in. but i know you can handle this one. try to confess to her. who knows? she loves you as well and that she's not really a lesbian at all but just loves to wear boyish things or acts like a boy. well, you know her more than me. so go on and tell her how you feel.
• Philippines
19 Feb 07
If you are male and she is female, I see no problem there. Court her, show her that you love her and how much you value her in your life and why. If you will be successful wooing her, congratulations, if not - scout for the right one for you. However, if you are both females, there goes a big problem, indeed. Forget her, and find yourself a suitable mate as God had intended from the day of creation that man is for woman, and woman is for man.
• United States
19 Feb 07
ask her if she truly wants to be a lesbian. ask her if she could change, would she? I don't want to tell you how to change because I am affraid you are not 18