How do you make a certain someone fall in love with you?

@reaperz (1266)
United States
February 19, 2007 1:11pm CST
For me, I never done this though. But I think that you have to act how the person wants you to act. Though, I'm not really sure about this... How do you make a someone fall in love with you?
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8 responses
• Philippines
20 Feb 07
I don't make someone fall in love to me. It is not me. I dont do things just to impress other people or make someone fall for me. I think what most people fall inlove with are those people who can show their true identity without really trying. Just being myself is I think the best way to make someone fall for you. Another thing is by imposing a good sense of thinking and a strong confidence to show up. Being so natural is a big factor. If you try to impress just to make other people admire you, you will just look like a trying hard type. That would be a turn off. Another thing is by sharing your self to other people through some ways you can possibly do. Example of it are making friends, joining organizations, attending some social events and contributing to your community. Being a productive one entails sharing what you have. Showing how you value life and people makes you more closer to them and eventually people might notice it and love you for it.
@Autisteek (326)
• Philippines
20 Feb 07
Making someone fall in love with you isn't in your hands because it is HIS/HER feelings. And no one else can control it but him. All you can be is someone who can be loved and the rest is up to them. Do not say "I'm like this and if they love me, they will accept me for what I am". Although it is true, you still have to improve yourself so that you won't become a monotonous person who seems to be uninterested with improvng himself... and so that you will be worthy of the love given to you.
@crazy_me (591)
• Philippines
19 Feb 07
To make someone fall in love with me, I would definitely not try to act differently because he would just fall in love with the person I am pretending to be and not with the real me. I would just act naturally. I would just be myself. I am confident of myself and I know that he would not be able to resist my charms. If he does, well then we are just not meant to be together. Lol! :)
@mememama (3077)
• United States
19 Feb 07
You can't make someone fall in love with you. You can act like you think they want you to act, but that's not healthy and in the end they will find out your true colors and dump you! People fall in love with who you are as a person. I fell in love with the little things that my husband does and how he treats me as a woman.
• Romania
19 Feb 07
Things in love don't happen as you would want them to happen. it's not that God hates you or that fate isn't ever on your side. it's just that people are different and worst of all: PEOPLE CHANGE. you can't expect someone to love you just because you want them to and you certainly can't make someone love you for what you're not. then they wouldn't love you...they'd just love the mask you're wearing.so try and listen to my advice:never refrain from being yourself because that's the most beautiful and the most attractive person you can ever be. good luck!
• India
19 Feb 07
I cant even imagine this.I dont think you can force someone to fall for you....Its really hard to make someone love.Yes you can attract someone physically.But that cannot be love.......like newtons third law we have love law :-love can neither be created nor be destroyed it can only be transferred from one person to another..lolzzzzz :)
@ddlaurie (132)
• Canada
19 Feb 07
By acting like someone else you lose the person you are. Act like they want then you then go back to the way you are is hard to do. Be your self if they don't like it then they are not meant to be with you.
@minnie_98214 (10574)
• United States
19 Feb 07
You cant force love. If its love its love you can not choose who will love you. You just have to be yourself and hope for someone who loves you as you are.