Broken Bad Relationship- what hurts most??? physical or emotional pain?

@Rashu169 (4391)
India
February 20, 2007 3:05am CST
any idea what hurts the most??? it it the physical abuse or the mental abuse that has long effect even after the relationship is over??? which most difficult to come over??????
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• United Arab Emirates
20 Feb 07
Its not the physical abuse its just the memories you have spend with that person or its just the nice time you people have together you miss that, and when your trust is being broken that hurts the most ...
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@Rashu169 (4391)
• India
20 Feb 07
well that would be mental abuse right??
@mimpi1911 (25454)
• India
20 Feb 07
both, physical and emotional pains, are traumatic. but , i feel, emotional pain makes one paralysed since it is irreparable. we can measue the depth and severity of physical hurts, we can go to a doctor and cure it of (in most cases) but mental agony has no cure. physical pains can be soothed by mental support. i actually know of someone,( who after being suffered a road accident had to be in bed for years and never really came out of it), relived just because of the emotional support from family. i feel, mental illnes and pains donot get registered, we can't measure it and so often ppl over rule it downright. i have been through mental agony and is still going through and i know for sure its much tougher than wounds or hurts. i just hope no one goes through it ever. thank you for a nice discussion.
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@Rashu169 (4391)
• India
20 Feb 07
true mental illness or abuse is the most difficult to come over as it hurts u from inside where as physical abuse is outside and healable upto a large extent