do you think gents should marry only after they somewat get settled in life????

India
February 20, 2007 6:26am CST
tell ur views.......
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• Philippines
20 Feb 07
Yes, I do believe that gents should marry once they get settled in life. Being the head of the family, men should be able to provide for his wife and children. Here in the Philippines, it's unadviseable to marry someone who isn't even settled. With the high tuition fees and prices of the food, houses etc, a woman who marries a man who isn't even stable or settled would really have a hard life.
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@shilpaum (1753)
• India
20 Feb 07
Yeah, They should..no they must. Marriage brings lots of responsibilities for men (no doubt for women too, but financially, atleast in India it first goes to men). What is use of being in relationship, if somebody is not able to provide minimum basic needs. (It needs more than basic needs). Otherwise, though u've love marriage, love will get over soon. Love as a feeling is nice, but soon it becomes verb, under such circumstances.
• India
20 Feb 07
its not neccessary.i tink evry1 will have different priorities.me personally would get settled and then get married.some people do the opposite...it depends
• Philippines
20 Feb 07
yes, in my opinion, gentlemen and guys should only marry after they get settled and if they are already stable financially, mentally, emotionally and physically. As a guy, i think they have to bear the responsibility of having a lot to offer and to provide for his future family and he can do this only if he is already settled and stable. i don't look up to guys that get girls pregnant then just rely and pass their responsiblities with their parents, it's just becoming so irresponsible of them to have made a baby and don't even do anything for his new family.