will you forgive your close friend in this situation.......?????just reply???

India
February 20, 2007 6:42am CST
imagine your close friend plays a nasty prank on you.... and at that time he/she does it wantedly and you know it.... it has a major impact on you.... after few days, he /she tell sorry..... will you forgive or what ???? post your answers..
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@anjoks (2084)
• Philippines
20 Feb 07
This happened to me a couple of times before. Gosh, it really annoyed me. I'm a type of person who easily breaks out when i'm mad, i instantly give sermons but after that everything's okay. It really depends on the situation actually. (",)
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@cabergren (1182)
• United States
20 Feb 07
I can't imagine that a real good friend would do something like that. Maybe this isn't the good friend that you think they are. Even if they said they were sorry I might have a hard time letting it go.
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@Eamerial (21)
• Portugal
20 Feb 07
it all depends of the kind of prank it is. Is it something you would expect a FRIEND to do? if it cost you something make him pay, and if it doesn't sound like a friendly prank then no... I would make him pay what it cost me and that would be the end of it.
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@Aussies2007 (5339)
• Australia
20 Feb 07
All depends what the major impact is... If the impact has cost me money... I would expect them to re-embourse me... or they would be no friend of mine. If it has caused me an injury or a broken relationship... I would not want to know about them. So there you are... If they can fix it... I will forgive them. If they cannot fix it or won't fix it... I'll sue them if I can. Forgiving stupidity only encourage stupidity. And most pranks are childish stupidity.
@lols189 (4797)
20 Feb 07
it depends really on what my friend done to me. if it was really out of order and it had a major impact on me then i probably wouldnt speak to he/she again
@kritipen (4085)
• United States
20 Feb 07
Playing pranks with friends to a certain limit is always ok till it dosent cost you too much. But there is a break off point to everything. And i feel that people no matter in what kind of a relationship they are in should alsways know their limits and the boundaries of their relationship. If it is a true friend and plays a prank on me and i am subjected to a loss and my friend knows it, then he/she will definitely try to make up for the loss besides saying a sorry and if it is not a real friend then they will never try to compensate for the loss. And i dont think that i will forgive a friend who is not that true very easily.
• Philippines
20 Feb 07
yes, i'd definitely forgive her. that's why we're friends, we play pranks and don't get pissed on it. i'll forgive her right away because it'll touch me for such because she approached me and tell me that she's sorry. that's really pure humility and that she's concern also. that's enough for me to know that she means no harm on the joke that she played on me and having me hurt is really just unintentional. i think it's but natural for friends to pull tricks on one another and it's also natural that others would really be angry about it. but eventually, time heals, that's why after some time, they'll just go and forget about it. :)