Women as mistress, is it acceptable???

@charms88 (7541)
Philippines
February 20, 2007 9:05am CST
I wonder why some women readily agreed to be a mistress instead of owning their men themselves. I have a friend who's been with her married boyfriend for 6 years. Last year, she gave birth to a baby boy. Her boyfriend shoulderd all the expenses, move her in a nice condo and handed her monthly allowances. What I don't understand is that she has her own money, a nice car which she purchased on her own, a decent job, and best of all, a loving and supportive parents. I know most society frowned upon mistress since they are the major source of breaking marriage apart. But my friend doesn't seems to care about it. What's your opinion on her situation?
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20 Feb 07
Well it's often both ways. Men = Mistress (women) Women = Play toy (men) often gardeners or handy men? Personally it's not acceptable either way in my opinion. I dislike cheats and those who use people and in most cases this is what they do. If they nearly get caught its bye bye or he came onto me etc. Really if you're going to play around, they shouldn't marry. this counts those who date and date someone else as a sad pathetic way to gain fun. (put it into the real realationship) Kudos ~Joey
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@charms88 (7541)
• Philippines
21 Feb 07
This friend of mine seems happy with the situation. Its like she is living in a fantasy. I wouldn't know how she will be able to cope once her fantasy turn into horror. Kudos to you...
• United States
23 Feb 07
It sounds like your friend wants all of the perks with none of the consequences and this man she is seeing sounds like he wants his cake and eat it too. They are both wrong. Who ends up hurt here? The wife most probably does, but defiinitely the children.
@charms88 (7541)
• Philippines
23 Feb 07
Children are always the one who must endure with this kind of situation.
@msqtech (15226)
• United States
20 Feb 07
I think she has all the wrong priorities and is extremely short sighted. She is not trying to live a moral life but one of money and things.
@charms88 (7541)
• Philippines
20 Feb 07
I gave her a hundred reasons already why it is wrong but it seems she's too stubborn or maybe her eyes are close.