Share everything?

By twix
@teison2 (5924)
Norway
February 20, 2007 6:19pm CST
If you are in a relationship, do you share everything with your partner? Or do you think there are certain things that are better left unsaid? What kind ot things do you keep to yourself?
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10 responses
@Fishish (697)
• India
21 Feb 07
i thin k it is better to keep some things hidden. u dont want soem issues to be discussed and also if it is a relationship it is not safe to tell all. some distance should be maintained esp those things should not be told which can backfire later on in life.
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• Canada
21 Feb 07
Yah, if it is not a healthy or safe relationship sometimes stuff left unsaid is better then saying something.
@soldenski (2504)
• United States
21 Feb 07
I keep my credit card's secret, the one's he does not know about. If he found out about them, he would be so upset.
• Canada
21 Feb 07
Do you keep up with your bills from your credit card? If so don't worry about it. Only if your putting the two of you in debt would I worry about it.
• Romania
28 Mar 07
i sahare almost everything but is good to keep my ideea for me.for example i go out and i see a man.i look to him but i don t say nothing to my boyfriend. i only look is not wrong but for him i think is not the same.is better to kepp for me this
• India
28 Mar 07
I am not very good at keeping secrets and if at all I am lying or trying to pretend something my husband is good at knowin i am not speaking the truth .. i just cannot pretend .. when i dont want to tell him something i do not bring the topic to his notice as far as possible but it does come out in light i do not keep it from him .. its just not possible for me to do that .. basically i know he loves me truly and however mad he would he wil come back to normal soon ... its ok if he is mad for sometime but i tell him .. cos i love to do certain things he dislikes so what .. i will do it no matter what comes in my way and now he knows that too so really doesnt bother ..
@hezoid (2148)
27 Mar 07
I share everything with my partner, well except maybe for toothbrushes, lol! We have a polciy of complete honesty, opensess and trust in our relationship and don't intentionally keep anything from each other. I guess there may be the odd thing that we don't share, simply becuase it doesn't come up in our conversations. Otherwise though we keep nothing from one another.
@palpalsky (900)
• United States
20 Mar 07
i make a point i share things with him ..its easy and convient ...
@Myrrdin (3601)
• Canada
2 Mar 07
Well certainly my partner doesn't know everything about me, that's not to say I am keeping anything to myself, but not everything has come up yet. Over time I am sure she will know more and more, but I believe that no matter what no one can know everything about any other person.
• United States
1 Mar 07
Honesty is the best policy - except when it will hurt someone else or yourself. Then again there are ways of being honest that are less hurtful than others, and you can always ask yourself "Does he really need to know?"
@jillbeth (2711)
• United States
28 Feb 07
I think it is best to keep details about previous relationships left unsaid. If your partner demands to know everything you've ever done in your life, then they must be very insecure.
• Canada
21 Feb 07
I never leave anything unsaid if I can help it. If you don't talk about it you can't fix the problem or you can't get to know how the other person feels about something to possabley change that.