Right or Wrong

Australia
February 20, 2007 10:36pm CST
Men: Do you consider going to a brothel, as cheating on your wife? Women: What do you think about this?
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9 responses
• United States
21 Feb 07
If the husband is hiding it from his wife, then yes, its cheating in my books. If the wife has the knowledge that he's going there and is ok with it, then no its not cheating.
• Australia
21 Feb 07
so do you reckon, that it will be alright as long as the wife knows? won't the wife gets jealous or something?
• United States
21 Feb 07
Well if the wife knows, and she is OK with it, why would she be jealous? If her husband is being honest with her, and she said she was fine with it, then no worries, she agreed to him going there, I wouldn't think she'd be jealous if she said it was ok with her that he went there, heck, maybe she wants them to go together.
• Australia
21 Feb 07
oooooopppps, maybe you're right! (:
@lionsong (44)
• Australia
22 Feb 07
I think it's cheating whether she knows about it or not. I was in a relationship like that once and even though I knew and "consented" it still hurt that he preferred to be with someone else besides me. The only reason I consented to it was because I was afraid of losing him if I didn't. Not a good foundation for a relationship. I'm happy to say that I'm not with that guy anymore and it's the best move I could have made for myself. I'm now married to a man who truly loves me and wouldn't dream of being with another woman.
• Australia
23 Feb 07
that is very sweet, good luck on your relationship. god bless.
@quispy (573)
• United States
21 Feb 07
It is definitely cheating. Love, honor and cherish, not go get some from other woman!
• Australia
22 Feb 07
that's right! true.
• United States
21 Feb 07
I would kill my husband if he even thought about visiting a whorehouse. Why would you even think this is not cheating?
• Australia
22 Feb 07
ohhh, ouch, that would hurt.
• Philippines
21 Feb 07
in my opinion it is cheating. so if you cannot handle fidelity and faithfulness, then do not get married. just play around and do not make any commitment
• Australia
21 Feb 07
very well said. and very good concept.
@mtdewgurl74 (18122)
• United States
21 Feb 07
I won't be able to put what I really think about this down because it would not be nice, so I will just go with this. I think that it is very wrong for a husband or a partener to go to a brothel or anything like a brothel because it is cheating and wrong. How do you think a man would react if their woman told them that they went to a male brothel? They would be mad. Just like a man thinks nothing of himself going to a srip club but can't tolerate his woman doing the same thing.
• Australia
21 Feb 07
fair enough.
@owens07 (325)
• Puerto Rico
21 Feb 07
of Course it is
• Australia
21 Feb 07
short and sweet!
• United States
21 Feb 07
Yes, I see it as cheating. Any intimate physical or mental association with another woman is cheating. Period. If you cannot handle monogamy or fidelity, do not marry that woman. Play around and one day you may stumble upon a woman who's worth it, or may just grow out of the stage that prevented you from being mature enough for committment.
• Australia
21 Feb 07
very well said! amen!
@dj_faheem (738)
• Pakistan
22 Feb 07
i think yes it is cheating but contorl your self and wait for any proof...............................................