If You Could Change Anything About Your Life What Would It Be

Canada
February 21, 2007 10:13pm CST
If You could go back and change anything about your life what would it be ? Personally if I could go back and change anything at all, I'd have never married.
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11 responses
@mzbubblie (3840)
• United States
28 Mar 07
Actually I wouldn't change anything about my life. I feel through the good and bad times in my life, It has taught me to be a stronger female today. I was married myself, now divorced and happy enjoying and raising my son, being a good mother to him, and being able to build that foundation for me and I for our future
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• Canada
5 Apr 07
I can tell by your attitude you'll do just fine. You're a smart girl to have been able to take something bad and turn it into something good. Your son is lucky to have a good mommy. Take care and Much Happiness.
@gabs8513 (48717)
• United Kingdom
28 Mar 07
Yes if I could go back I would have stood up for myself and not stayed married to someone who walked all over me for 21 Years and Mentally made me Ill. I would have divorced him a lot earlier.
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• Canada
5 Apr 07
Yes I know and sometime you get to that point where you just simply don't know what to do. I've been there and done that too.
@caramello (4381)
• Australia
2 Mar 07
For me there would be a few things I would change if I could and one would be to have not married my first husband, but out of it came 2 beautiful children so I would not want to change them! But for me the things that I would liked to have changed have most likely been good for me as to teach me and maybe make me appreciate what I have now.
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• Canada
3 Mar 07
Yes I can relate to what you're saying. Take Care
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• Romania
1 Mar 07
i don`t want to change anything about my life beaucause i like my life and i love myself
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• Canada
3 Mar 07
Well that's rally good bcause it doesn't always happen that way as you can see by reading all these responses. I hope your life will always be a positive one... Take Care
@raijin (10373)
• Philippines
24 Feb 07
I guess if I would be given a chance to change some of it, surely I do wanna change by the way I lived it. I wish I lived the life in which God wants us to, to some of the things that I've taken for granted and to appreciate more of the many things that I never took time in thinking of. But I think I should have regrets on it, I'm glad to know that I have now learned from it. Besides, it's better to be bad from the first and be good than be a good person then turn to worst.
• Canada
27 Feb 07
You're a very positive person. People could learn from you !!! We have all been guilty of taking things for granted.
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@mom_of_2 (399)
• Canada
22 Feb 07
HMMM...this is always a fun topic !! Like most people I have regrets about my past. I could have made better choices concerning boyfriends, friends, jobs but in all honesty ... even if I was given the option...WOULDN'T CHANGE A THING! I have alot of blessings in my life and I honestly beleive changing the past would give our future a whole new outcome. Had I not dated some "losers" I probably wouldn't have dated my husband which means I wouldn't have the children I love and adore. Instead of regreting the past...look forward to the future :)
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• United States
23 Feb 07
Absolutly! I have had MANY horrible things happen in my life. Many dissapointments. Many losses. But for every bad thing, something good always comes out of it. I would never change a thing. Besides, if you change something bad, who's to say that the alternative wouldn't be worse! Everything happens for a reason. Bad things give a chance to learn or teach and good things give a reason to celebrate!
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@winterose (39921)
• Canada
22 Feb 07
there are several things that I would change, starting from being a teenager. I would have agreed to change schools which would have change all my future friends, and I would not have married who I had married either.
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• Canada
3 Mar 07
Isn't it funny how men are the weakest link GOODBYE lol
• United States
22 Feb 07
Oh yes there is alot of things that I would have changed. I wouldn't of dropped out of school.And I would of never married my husband. But, some how I would of had to be with him cause I would never change a thing about my kids. I would want to keep them.
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• Canada
5 Apr 07
Yes I have seen a lot of kids in my day but I have never seen ONE child that wasn't a keeper. Take Care
@RobinJ (2501)
• Canada
23 Feb 07
Where do we start, day i was born and for the nest 58 years would be nice the only thing I would not change is my 2 kids they are the greatest and I am not saying that just because they are mine. But for the most part my life was to put it nicely the pits. it was only when I couldn't work at my old Job that I went to school and got my Life Skills Coach diploma that I really came to understand who and what I am, and Now I wouldn't change any thing except the fact that I have Vascular Dementia. and fortunately it is the slow progressive type. I have lived with this for at least 10 years but it wasn't until I lost my last job that I got help for it. And now I am a very happy easy going person. and I get to play on mylot every day and meet great and wonderful people that think and believe the same as I do. Great group
@kgwat70 (13396)
• United States
4 Apr 07
There are a couple of things that I would have changed about my life for sure and one would be my shyness when I was younger as I probably missed several opportunities of having a girlfriend and possibly be married already. It is not too late for this to happen but I certainly missed out on a relationship with a friend that i liked a lot then and still do now. I would also change my majors in college to computers instead of business administration and accounting.
22 Feb 07
well this is pretty intresting...i wld actually want to change a few things...wish this could happen in real...would have wantedcto be more focussed on studies in university and stsyed away from the guy i had gone around there...would have saved a lot of heart ache...and trouble..thing i am happy about is i married the right guy in the ebnnd...