Fat children

@Dolcerina (3376)
Hungary
February 22, 2007 4:15am CST
On tuesday I visited a primary school with my son. We sit onto a few lessons (matematics, hungarian, french) to see how the teachers work with the children... I was astonished that from 25 children 10 were fat. It is 40%! As I remember when I was a child in our class there were only 2-3 fat children. Th eother interesting that when my son goes to the playground, he can not play with other children, because I think all the children stay in the falt all day watching tv, or playing on computer, or gameboy. Why parents do not see their child live unhealthy life...?
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35 responses
• United States
22 Feb 07
It's a combination of bad diet and lack of exercise. The irony is that most of these parents are themselves heavy and yet, they allow their children to follow in their footsteps. It's a case of one generation passing on these bad habits to another generation.
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@Dolcerina (3376)
• Hungary
22 Feb 07
Yes, you are right. And as I heard it is even bigger promblem in USA.
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@phon4u (2215)
• Laos
22 Feb 07
Children should play outside more. If people have seen the heavy children in my country, it means they are healthier than the thin ones. The thin ones don't have enough food like the heavy ones, it is different from other European countries; The much heavier you are, the much weaker they will be. I will see 2-3 out of 30 pupils in the class room.
@Dolcerina (3376)
• Hungary
22 Feb 07
thank you my friend i rate your kind comments.
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@Jshean20 (14349)
• Canada
22 Feb 07
Well I'm only 21 years old and even I remember as a kid there were only about 2 "fat" kids in the class, so things have taken a drastic turn even in just a matter of 10 years or so. I don't know what it is exactly but I think that people are living busier lives overall and sometimes it's easiest to opt for the boxed and fast foods (both very fatty). Also with technology improving so much every day, kids are more entertained by that last video game, than they are by participating in active sports.
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@Dolcerina (3376)
• Hungary
22 Feb 07
yes, but it is not the mistake of child but the parent..
• Romania
22 Feb 07
i think this issue reflects the modern society very well.childhood obesity is a serious health problem wich must be understood and analyse by both sides:parents and dieteticians.children,like adults are too sedentary these days .unfortunately child obesity is a class issue-because people from disadvantaged backgrounds may not have been taught the principles of a healthy eating ,and they are more likely to live outer ,car-dependent suburbs... these children are the future of humanity and we should think more at them ,at their problems...
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• United States
22 Feb 07
it's not safe for children to play in parks in some neighborhoods. other parents fear kidnaping if a child goes outside to play.
• United States
22 Feb 07
Yes this is true but that doesn't mean that you should let your child live on the video games, TV or PC. There are many different things that you can do to get your child off the tube and motivated to do things. My 6 year nephew would rather sit in front of the TV, game boy or some other form of electronics then to play with his other toys, so it is not really about sending your kid to the playground, any one remember the Tonka Trucks,well kids played with them which means that they were moving around and burning off fat and calories
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• United States
22 Feb 07
The USA is full of "fat" kids, it is sickening to think that these kids are not going to get thin either. Parents let them eat what ever and when ever they want. Personally I never kept junk food in the house that was treat for doing something good, getting good grades, ect. and to this day my daughter will not eat chocolate, or junk food, which I am glad of because she now has a daughter and she gives her fruits, veggies, low sugar snacks and very little candy. This weight problem starts when they are little, if you teach them that it is better to eat say a carrot stick instead of a candy bar or bag of chips they will become familiar with this style of eating, which is much more healty for them as they get older. I guess you could say that I am lucky, I do not exercise, but I have never weighed over 120 lbs either, I have a high metabolisim, and I have a very physical job. I do feel that the TV is raising our children today, along with video games and computers. I did not let my daughter spend to much time doing any of that. We went camping, hiking and to the amusement parks, which is very fun.
@Dolcerina (3376)
• Hungary
22 Feb 07
you are right and a perfect mom :)
@Dolcerina (3376)
• Hungary
23 Feb 07
Ok, then tell me why is more fat children now, than 15years ago?
@emeraldisle (13139)
• United States
23 Feb 07
When growing up my sister would eat the apples, the vegetables, things like that. THe healthy snacks and she ate very healthy all the way around. She was fat and my brothers who thought nothing of grabbing 2 sandwiches for a snack were skinny as rails. It isn't always about what they eat or what they do in life. Sometimes it's just how they are. You are lucky that you don't have to worry about weight, as you said you have a high metabolism, well not everyone was blessed with such. Also some weight problems don't start when they are little. I didn't have a problem till I hit puberty. That's when I gained weight. Before that I was a normal healthy size. So don't prejudge that everything is about junk food and being lazy. It isn't. Sometimes its just the way the person is supposed to be.
@krysi17 (234)
• United States
22 Feb 07
I know what you mean.My boyfriends little brother already weighs more then he does.Its very sad because this child is 14 and his brother is 22.I notice that his mom doesnt help the matter much with the food she lets him have.Ive sat and watched him eat 6 hotdogs in one sitting.I blame it on the parents but have no idea why they cant see the harm there actually causing.Sometimes its almost like shes in denile and shell say something to the fact of oh head gonna be tall.
@krysi17 (234)
• United States
27 Feb 07
I have definatley learned from her mistakes.And when I have children it will not be that way.I heard on the news today some 8 year old child in britain who weighs 196 pounds may be taken away from his parents unless she changes his diet.In some ways I think thats a little crazy. But maybe that would be what it takes to give someone a wake up call.
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@Dolcerina (3376)
• Hungary
22 Feb 07
Definietly it is the task ofthe parents. They should teach the children for the life.
@Dolcerina (3376)
• Hungary
27 Feb 07
Maybe a few parents wake up for this news. And thank you for the word correction.
@rhinoboy (2129)
23 Feb 07
My country is now the most seriously overweight in Europe. The government are launching many plans to get people taking more excercise, as many ouf our children are actually expected to die before their parents from obesity related problems. I am overweight myself, but we have been eating healthy since my wife got pregnant and I plan for my little lgirl to enjoy plenty of outdoor play and exercise to encourage her into a healthy lifestyle.
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@Dolcerina (3376)
• Hungary
23 Feb 07
In Hungary in the schools there are apple automats instead of sweetautomats for 1-2years. I think it was a very great idea. It is also forbidden to sell sweets in the school canteen.
@lucy02 (5016)
• United States
23 Feb 07
It's the same way here in the U.S., probably worse. My nephew stayed with us for a couple of weeks a while back and all he wanted to do was watch tv or play games on the computer. I thought he would want to get out since we live in the country but he didn't. Forunately he does take karate classes and plays ball so he isn't fat.
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@Dolcerina (3376)
• Hungary
23 Feb 07
Well, I received comments that not each parents are thinking in this way. I astonished on a few comments. Thank you lucy
@raveemenon (1071)
• India
23 Feb 07
physical exercise - physical exercise tones up life
The relevance and the heat of the topic is seen here by the overwhelmimg response you get. We need to understand two points here. One making children eat more and whatever they like is not love as many people think . secondly making them work or play is not punishing them since they need to be hard working citizen of the country tommorow. Imagine a country of all lazy and obese people! During my child hood days i used to help my mom and dad in their work like watering plants,going to groecery shop,lifting water from wells,and sometimes even in gardening. Today neither the parents nor the children find the necessity of any of such work since all of us are confined to flats and whatever things you want is either delivered at the door step or lifted by the driver or the driver father/mother.Children are averse to work,to responsibilities,in repecting the elders and in obeying parents. They are in the world of Jetix,CN,HBO, pop corns,pizzas,harry potter and the rest i do not know. We need to mend them right and make them fit mentally and physically.The first step need to start from home and of course the school is the other place where they spend the rest of the time. should we wait for legislations in this regard??
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@Dolcerina (3376)
• Hungary
23 Feb 07
Thank you my friend. Unfortunatelly some parents can not see what I mean, and they say why do I judge the fat people.... ??? I think all of them feel themselves guilty that is why they attacks in the moment they hear the word FAT
@adidas7878 (1891)
• United States
23 Feb 07
hello friend, just want to correct something, fat kids are call kids with obesity dont want to offen them you know, parents are part of the problem, kids themselves are the other part, and their eating habbit too, and than games and techology are the other part, here in the us there is alot of them, they are slowly working to help people out, like they ban soda drinking in school now they only can get juice and water and other things, and so are candies too beening ban too in place they have fruit and healthy snack, so yea back when i was in high school i was pretty fit and in shape, i used to run 3 miles a day with cross country, now i am alittle out of shape but i can still run, just play football with some my friends few months ago and paintballs it is fun, i think kids need to get out more.
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@Dolcerina (3376)
• Hungary
24 Feb 07
thanks for the correction, i will try to use : kids with obesity. this is a new word for me.
@earth2jacq (1502)
• Philippines
23 Feb 07
I have seen a show on Maury where he featured obese babies. One mother has a 4 year old daughter weighing 125 lbs. She told Maury that she feeds the kid whatever she wants so the little girl balooned to 125 lbs...very obese for her age. Sometimes the parents are to blame why their kids become fat or worse obese. Watch the clip of the Maury show here: www.ifilm.com./video/2805682/channel/tvclips
@Dolcerina (3376)
• Hungary
23 Feb 07
Thank you, I checked it. SOme parents really think that their children are healthy... And they become good parents if they feed the children nonstop
@aretha (2538)
• United States
22 Feb 07
my hubby and i were just talking about this the other day at walmart when doing our food shopping. we had passed this family with a little boy and a little girl that were very big. then you look in there cart and knew why they looked that way. there was more junk in there cart then we buy in months didn't see not one veggie. thats the first place we go is to the fresh veggies. it is sad these kids have to go through school this way and it is really not good in anyway. my oldest is 6 and up untill a few months ago he was a chubby little thing and has been sense he was a baby he was also short,so that didn't help. i always felt horible so worried about him starting school but we have never let him eat alot of junk and i always made a decent meal(meat,side and veggie) he loves veggies and alot for snacks i would buy him carrots. he loves munching on carrots although hes not real big on fruit. anyway it killed me cuz we just couldn't get him to thin out but back a few months ago he started growing up and thinned out alot. he is also built bigger so that didn't help any. so i am not sure why parents allow it and don't care or think of what they are gonna go through. i really think its cuz most parents just don't care anymore. its sad really
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@Dolcerina (3376)
• Hungary
22 Feb 07
thank you aretha, i like your comment too.
• India
23 Feb 07
since the idiot box has launched with a lot of satekllite channels, children have forgotten ht eart of playing outside with their friends. Nowadays, children r either hooked up to TV or computer and don't feel like playing at all. This is the curse of the latest technological revolution.
@Dolcerina (3376)
• Hungary
23 Feb 07
thanks for you comment, rakku! I rate you all.
@emeraldisle (13139)
• United States
23 Feb 07
You remind me a lot of a woman I know. If her daughter gains 3 pounds she puts her on slim fast until she loses it. This has been going on since we've known her and her daughter was 6 at the time. She's now 13 and is the size of a 10 year old. I can count her ribs and her vertebrea. Sometimes it isn't about being unhealthy. You really shouldn't assume that kids are just sitting around shoveling food into their mouth as they watch tv. It doesn't happen that way most of the time. My brother and sister-in-law feed their daughter nothing but healthy food, make sure she gets lots of activity and guess what? She's still gaining weight. Some of it is just the way people are supposed to be. It isn't all about what they eat and what they do. People come in all shapes and sizes, just the way the world is. You need to realize that. Not everyone is meant to wear a size 1. Some people their bodies are naturally bigger, just the way they are made. You can either accept it or continue to be a judgemental person. Remember though what you may see as fat the doctors might see as normal. I've seen my share of people who have accused kids of being fat but they are well within normal ranges. They just go by the image they have of what is normal and most of the time it's so skewed it's pathetic.
@Dolcerina (3376)
• Hungary
23 Feb 07
But you did not answered my question. Why are there more fat children now, than 15-20-25 years ago? YOu don't speak about my topic, but only prejudice. I do not say predjudice, but facts, that fat people or fat children's parents can not understand.
@Dolcerina (3376)
• Hungary
23 Feb 07
stop insult now. you did not read my discussion and the comments. I have also reported you to mylot admin, because you started the same discussion.
@sarajw (85)
23 Feb 07
The only question i can see you've asked is why do parents of fat children let them live unhealthy lives!!!! I do the very best for my son, and yes he is big, i use the word big as FAT is incredibly unkind. He is the only 8 year old child i know that drinks skimmed milk, has fresh fruit salad for breakfat, has no sugar only sweetners, and is rarely given sweets, and yes he's still big, he cycles 5 miles a day, and goes to after school sports club 3 times a week. All this and yet i feel i'm being accused of letting my child live an unhealthy life. I see thin children eating things i would never give my child, pot noodles, chips, endless sweets, but they are obviously doing the right thing as their children are thin. I find your comments hurtful and very narrow minded, and no strangly i'm not a fat lazy parent either!
@re08dz (1941)
• Australia
23 Feb 07
Actually it's not always the fault of the parents. I have three kids - a boy and twin girls - all of who are very active and for the most part would rather be outside than in. One of my twins is quite skinny and of the three she would eat more and be the least active. Her sister is incredibly active (basketball three times a week, bmx racing, she gets picked for every school sports team, plus everything else she does) yet while not obese would probably be considered overweight. And she eats better than the other two combined. And my son is probably in between the two girls. Sometimes it does just happen - whether it's genetics, metabolism or whatever - while at times it may be through diet or lack of exercise - that's not always the case
@Dolcerina (3376)
• Hungary
23 Feb 07
If one of the childrent parents is similar it can be genetical, but not in each case. Most fat, or overweight parents appologizes if their kids are fat or sorry obessive, that it is because of genetics, but only a very few percent of them may appologize with this. I can not agree with you, it does not just happen... I does not speak about the looks of these children, but their lifestyle!
@hellboi (661)
• Philippines
23 Feb 07
Society has indeed changed over time. Technology enabled us to overcome long droughts and famine. On the contrary there is so much food around and fastfood chains are appearing like mushrooms. You are also right about how kids play these days. They are likely stuck inside their homes watching TV or play with their playstations and some are addicted to PC games or the internet. There is no room for physical development and some social interactions. I think it is wise for parents to complement everything. Like they limit their children's time on the computers and let them engage in some sports. This would help their kids develop physically and have some social interactions. That way they can have some personality.
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• United States
22 Feb 07
This is a growing trend, espeically here in the U.S. And, it is going to take a while for people to realize that they have to do something now, and not let it continue. From my own experience, th. e children that are in my family, are usually active and eat well, but, there are a few of them that are not, and spend all their time eating junk food. There are some schools that are not only changing the food that is being served, but also they are adding more gym classes, so that children get back to being healhty. But, you are right, this is a big problem and it is getting bigger. I hope that people solve the problem and really try to keep their children healthy
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• United States
22 Feb 07
parents are more preoccupied in their bills and jobs that they never stop to look at their children. The stress is blinding them from seeing what is going around them. Since children see no attention towards them they become more independent and prefer to be alone. Obesity is growing really fast, and mainly in children.
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@Dolcerina (3376)
• Hungary
23 Feb 07
Thanks! It is true.
@sarajw (85)
22 Feb 07
From a mother of a fat kid, i find this quite offensive. I'm of normal build and weight as is my hubby and daughter. We eat healthy food, (no take aways or ready meals). My son was born very big and for whatever reason has always been big. He cycles 5 miles a day 2 and a half each way to school, and does lots of sports, and is very fit. The doctors have been as puzzled as the rest of us as to why he's so large, (he's also very tall), and has been tested for variuos things, but i was told to except it and that's just the way he is. To suggest that parents of fat kids make them sit in all day and stuff them full of junk is incredibly small minded, and it's due to attitudes like that, that make larger children feel so different.