Can you hate?

India
February 22, 2007 2:41pm CST
Can you hate someone you loved So much?can you hate someone you love from the bottom of your heart?
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8 responses
• United States
23 Feb 07
i have felt hate for aperson that i was loved deply--- i hate that i was sucked into a terrible position and the way i was treated but deep down if that person was in danger or really needed me, i'd be there.... its my human nature.... i have despised many but would help them even if they hurt me again later.... i would just stay away from them so that i am not used any longer---- i just tell myself that i am a good person and it is right to help others---- i won't be stupid, but will be kind.... if they burn me well what comes around goes around and funny how karma works....
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@itgalary (634)
22 Feb 07
It happens sometimes...People may start hating a person whom they loved a lot...Because its easy to forgive an enemy but difficult to forgive a friend.
• Philippines
23 Feb 07
Now i have a friend who help me coping for my exbf because the guy leaved me hanging but i can't just insisted myself to him if we can't. This friend is revealed all to me what my exbf extra activities when he leaved.I think I just lucky because he was far from me. That I don't see him because I will be hurt. I remembered that I cried for one night to release the pain. I just happy that have a friend who will never leave me.
• United States
24 Feb 07
Yes I can. He has done so much that I hate. Don't get me wrong I do love him with every inch of my soul but I do hate him at the same time.
• Philippines
23 Feb 07
I don't hate is that I am insecure because he leaved after all of our good times and bad times of my life. But I realize that we have just remain as experience. But If i hate him for the rest of my life i will not grow as a person for good.
• United States
22 Feb 07
I think you can. I did. I hated them for hurting me the way they did and not caring enough to realize what they were doing. I pulled away from the relationship and distanced myself quite a bit. After 5 years I forgave that person but still have no desire to be friends with them.
@zfbingo1 (31)
• United States
22 Feb 07
I think hate is a strong word, I believe you can get so angry or hurt that you might not want anything to do with that person anymore but not hate them.
@eaforeman6 (8983)
• United States
22 Feb 07
i think anyone is capable of it , if pushed too far. It is also an emotion that we have to be aware of and have control of. My theory is that if you cant get along with someone then go on about your own life and leave it alone. If it all possible the best solution is to strive for peace and remove the war wongers from your life. Life is just simply too short.
• United States
22 Feb 07
There is a adage that says there is a thin line between love and hate. Although, I don't agree with anyone hating anyone for any reason, I do understand that the emotions of love and hate can be felt for the same individual. When a person has opened themselves up to love they make themselves vulnerable and what someone may do that they don't love may not hurt them at all, but if the person they have given their love to hurts them even in the same manner it can be devastating and you can find yourself feeling such as disgust and dislike for that person with the same intensity and to the same extent in which you loved that person. I hope all that makes sense.