can you decide by your own?

decide for me... - its annoying and foolish
Philippines
February 23, 2007 1:32am CST
my mom sometimes wait for much she do and shall take with the approval of my dad.. but when my dad is not involved with a particular thing, she's just great and she does better deciding for her own.. i also know someone who cant even decide her own course to take, she's young i know, but as most of the time, even the food to eat she cant.. and thats annoying, sometimes, before doing a question i already decide for her... she tells what she wants but i dont get it even if we are not together if she plans to buy something or to break up with his boyfriend she calls for me and ask what must she do or buy... know someone like this please? how's the feeling being asked all the time for the welfare of someone else life...?
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5 responses
• Bulgaria
23 Feb 07
I can decide on my own things that are depending on me. but if someone depend on my decision too I always ask him for his opinion. I want to know that he/she is accepting waht I do !
• Philippines
23 Feb 07
ok thanks.. plus for you.
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@msqtech (15226)
• United States
23 Mar 07
great that is what families need good adults
@ThioYF (82)
• Indonesia
23 Feb 07
unfortunately i always decide everything by my own :( my mom and dad always said 'whatever'. i wish i have someone beside me to help.
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• Philippines
23 Feb 07
oh, how sad you know what, people here with parents interference, hates their presence but you, you rather have someone else.. and that is good, plus for you.
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@jerpogz13 (283)
• Antarctica
23 Feb 07
honestly speaking,i cant decide on my own.i probably ask my husband if my decisions is good.i depend on him.but not all the time.if i have i doubt on my feelings i ask some opinion to my husband.i dont want to make some mistakes.i want to think several times before i go on.
• Philippines
23 Feb 07
i can understand, its a mutual love and everyone participates to make it a final good decision. thank you,. plus for you..
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@lsen06 (5000)
• India
11 Mar 07
i always decide of my own.
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@msqtech (15226)
• United States
23 Mar 07
she is conceding to much in life for her man