hate these!

Philippines
February 23, 2007 3:16am CST
I hate it when some people call me selfish after denying on a single favor, considering all the petty and huge things I have previously done for them. I hate it when some people don’t appreciate the good things I’ve done for them. I hate it when some people don’t even utter “thank you” after the sacrificial things I’ve done for them. I hate it when some people get the nerve to push a favor to me when they know for a fact that I have priorities far more important than doing somebody else’s responsibility. I hate it when some people play jokes on me when they know that I’d be affected on it. I hate it when some people get the nerve to tell someone about me (whatever that is) when they don’t even know the “real” me. I really hate many negative things about some people. But I don’t keep grudges on them that long. Still, some people really get that big nerve of taking advantage of the weaknesses I have: having a hard time telling NO, and being really unobtrusive, private and timid. And so, as a consolation, I just stick into mind that I did what I think is right, and still am a bit proud of it.
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7 responses
• China
24 Feb 07
that's the reason why we always say SPEAK UP!..Don't keep to yourself what you feel. You may suffer from heart disease if you always do that..hahaha!.. seriously, if someone done something that you don't like, try to confront them so that they will not abuse you. Be confident enough to express what you feel..don't just shrug your shoulders or say NO COMMENT..
@raijin (10373)
• Philippines
23 Feb 07
If you think you've done nothing wrong, then why hate them? If they are the ones who don't understand you, then ignore them. Do you what you think is right for you and don't pay much attention on them. If you think you are more educated than them, teach them or tell them and not hate them. Hate will only do you no good..
• Philippines
23 Feb 07
I don't actually hate the person. I hate the deed. I am unfortunately not a confronter, so instead of telling them that they're abusive, I just ignore them.
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@lifeiseasy (2292)
• United States
25 Feb 07
Come now hate is a very strong word ...I think its more like dislkie for you since you have such a great attitude toward forgiving and not holding a grudge ...thats a awesome attitude to have..and if you have given soley for the purpose of trying to help them be proud of what you have done and don't let the negative thought even enter into your life ...you will be mcuh happier that way ... :D
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@maribel1218 (3085)
• Philippines
24 Feb 07
There are certain things in life that are not pleasing to us and not turning out the way we wanted specially some attitudes of some person that you stated. What is important is that you think what you do is best and it doesn't hurt anyone the way they hurt you and you keep on positive prospective in life and try not to be really affected by negative traits that you see in other individual.
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@Monkeymia (206)
• Australia
23 Feb 07
I agree, how hard is to show a little appreciation and say Thank you. It really mkes you wonder why you go out of your way at times to help people, only to have them be rude, nasty and totally disrespectful.
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• India
23 Feb 07
even i do!!!
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@sunny1984 (640)
• India
23 Feb 07
Let them say what ever they say u just remain positive from your side
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