February 23, 2007 4:53am CST
Why does some people get pleasure when insulting others? What prompts them to insult others? How do you feel when insulted by some one close to U? And how do you react when you are insulted by some one close to you either in private or in front of others?
23 Feb 07
Pleasure by insulting others,too bad. Actually, I don't like insult from anybody,who might be my realtive, but not close to me. I behave accordingly...if to many people around, accepts that quitely.If in alone, argue for sometime...if arguements r crowding, leave the place. But, it may be my drawback...I can't remember those insults for long time. I just forgive in short period. Many times I decide, that I will keep this mind, to take revenge but I can't. May be I'm having weak memory...lol. I don't mind insults by those whom I love, even they slap me! They don't do such things for their pleasure. It doesn't mean I'm not having " Swabhiman". But, I'm more emotional than practical...only for those whom I like.
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23 Feb 07
I think it depends on the type of insult. The only person that could really make a comment that would bother me much would be my husband. There are some that I can blow off like, "you never cleaan the house". Then there are the serious one like "you are such a f**kin b*tch". If the latter is said to me in front of others, the person who said it will be seeing the back of my head as I walk away. I will deal with it later in private. In private I will ask why the person feels the way they do. I will always try to talk things out.