Insult

Pleasure by insulting others,too bad. Actually, I don't like insult from anybody,who might be my realtive, but not close to me. I behave accordingly...if to many people around, accepts that quitely.If in alone, argue for sometime...if arguements r crowding, leave the place. But, it may be my drawback...I can't remember those insults for long time. I just forgive in short period. Many times I decide, that I will keep this mind, to take revenge but I can't. May be I'm having weak memory...lol. I don't mind insults by those whom I love, even they slap me! They don't do such things for their pleasure. It doesn't mean I'm not having " Swabhiman". But, I'm more emotional than practical...only for those whom I like.

I think it depends on the type of insult. The only person that could really make a comment that would bother me much would be my husband. There are some that I can blow off like, "you never cleaan the house". Then there are the serious one like "you are such a f**kin b*tch". If the latter is said to me in front of others, the person who said it will be seeing the back of my head as I walk away. I will deal with it later in private. In private I will ask why the person feels the way they do. I will always try to talk things out.

well i guess people insult others just to let go of the anger that they feel but we all know that being insulted is very hard to accept.