Are you happy?

@sahira (1072)
Philippines
February 23, 2007 10:05am CST
At this point in time,i am not..my husband is working abroad and of course i missed him so much.I am so envy whenever i see couple very sweet and happy together.
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@maryannemax (12174)
• Sweden
23 Feb 07
i am so happy! very very happy. i just received a package from my boyfriend who lives in another country and got my star rating raised from a 9 to an amazing 10! so, i am really having a great day! i am sorry to hear that you are sad and lonely. don't be. it will pass soon. my boyfriend lives in sweden and i live in the philippines. we miss each other everyday. we met last year and spent two nice weeks together. i say, the best two weeks of my life (yet). it was the loneliest time for me when i saw him leave. it was so heartbreaking. and after sometime, i have accepted the fact that we can't be together for the moment and will soon be. so, i always try to cheer up and he cheers me up, too most of the time. i look forward to being with him within this year and start a life with the man i truly adore. still, i do miss him so much everyday of my life. but i cling on to hope that everything will be just fine as planned. and just like you, i envy lovers i see being together, sharing sweet talks, holding hands, etc. it's just a natural thing to feel. but hey! cheer up. one day, you'll be together again. it's hard and will be harder in many days to come. but you have to be strong for your relationship. everything will be alright for you two. take care.
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@sahira (1072)
• Philippines
24 Feb 07
Thank,that's good for you.you are strong to handle things while away from your loved one.I think you're right,i have to be strong,someday i and my husband will be together and waiting for that!
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@maryannemax (12174)
• Sweden
24 Feb 07
to be honest, i am not strong most of the time. there are times when i find myself crying, too because i miss the man i love so much. but then, i am always reminded by my heart to keep tha faith all the time and that soon, everything will be alright.
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@makeaplay (131)
• Ethiopia
23 Feb 07
well -i guess i have nobody to miss .......that could make me this sad ......
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@sahira (1072)
• Philippines
24 Feb 07
oh sad to hear that..look for one so that you will be happy.get along with others,your friend and your family.
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@007plus1 (312)
23 Feb 07
sometimes, when i have friends around
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@sahira (1072)
• Philippines
24 Feb 07
not sometimes,be happy always.You have friends,your family around.Mine is different because my husband is away,but ofcourse,i love my friends and family who are there to support and comfort me.
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• Romania
23 Feb 07
my boyfriend works in italy.And i'm from Romania.It's hard for me to when i see couples but i understand him and i try to suport him in what he is doing.I miss him a lot but i know that is the best for him in this moment's.
@gianena (256)
• Philippines
24 Feb 07
You're a very understanding girlfriend. ;) Sometimes we have to make sacrifices for our loved ones, right?!?!? Just as long you trust and love each other, everything will be okay. Take care... ;)
@sahira (1072)
• Philippines
24 Feb 07
yes TRUST is very important,my husband is there working just because of me and our son.It is normal to miss him like this,very badly!..but this is life!
@mdarma (868)
• Singapore
24 Feb 07
Hi Sahira, your feeling are true and no one can blame you of thinking like that. Be cool Sahira, your hubby is overseas because he wants to create a good future for you and himself. Eventually, happines is in store and in abundence. To pass time take advantage of mylot and create conversations, this may help you to overcome your boredom and sadness. Hey, we have the internet, I am sure you are connected to him. Smile Sahira. Cheers
@sahira (1072)
• Philippines
24 Feb 07
yes,mylot discussions make me smile always..thanks for the good advice.yes with the help of internet,we always get in touch.Thanks again!
@gianena (256)
• Philippines
24 Feb 07
Yep, I am happy now... I always see to it that I'm happy... That depends on you, right?!?!?!? But I know you're sad cause your husband is working abroad but I think you shouldn't be sad cause one of these days, he'll be back. He's just doing his job as the head of the family. Sometimes, you have to sacrifice things for your loved ones. Just think of happy things!!! Always be positive... ;) Take care... Good luck... ;)
@sahira (1072)
• Philippines
24 Feb 07
yes!thank you!i trust him,he's working there for us,i love him because he is responsible enough fro me and our son.I always trust him,so you're i must think positive.cheers!
@Akeela (2082)
• Trinidad And Tobago
23 Feb 07
Yeah I wont like to be in your shoes beacuse sometimes my husband works late and I know he's doing it for me and I feel sad and scared at times. But sweetie I wish you all the best...
@sahira (1072)
• Philippines
24 Feb 07
thank you,just being late you are sad,how much more long distance affair,very very sad.