• United Kingdom
24 Feb 07
I'm not sure about that. There are a few times when I've started off in a happy relationship and then after a while, things start to be different somehow. I don't know if it's because the other person actually changes or if it's just because they had tried to impress me and then stopped making an effort once they got comfortable. I have been with my partner now for 4 years and he definitely seems to have changed quite a bit. I know there are some things which are the same but the situation is different so the things that haven't changed should have done. But there are some things which have certainly changed such as when he has done something wrong, where he used to realise and apologise and make an effort to change it, now he will shout at me for being upset by it, try and blame me for whatever he's done wrong and not understand that he has done something wrong. As far as I know, I am still the same person as I was 4 years ago. So I think it's a mixture of them changing and them not being right in the first place but you don't notice because you only notice the things you like.