To know or Not to Know

@kokopelli (4842)
United States
October 14, 2006 4:12pm CST
They say knowledge is power, but on the same token, they say Ignorance is bliss. If you're partner is cheating, would you rather know or not know?
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15 responses
• United States
17 Oct 06
I would want to know....if he ever got caught..it would be the end of the world for him!!! but you know in many cases men or women cheat and their partner NEVER finds out....and in that case it's whatever you don't know doesn't hurt!
@kokopelli (4842)
• United States
17 Oct 06
yep, whatever you don't know won't hurt you... but if find out later, it might kill you (urgh!). better to find out sooner, don't you think? ;)
• United States
18 Oct 06
yup...the sooner the better...than you can make his life a living hell!!!!
@kokopelli (4842)
• United States
18 Oct 06
right, haha!
• United States
14 Oct 06
Ignorance may be bliss, but it is also cowardly. A person should want to know. They should face their problems and take action on them. Why let a person screw around on you, just because you don’t know? Why let them make a fool of you because of your ignorance? Know, or find out and get rid of the cheater!
@kokopelli (4842)
• United States
15 Oct 06
i can't agree more! :)
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• United States
16 Nov 06
Thanks kokopelli! I am glad to see that others agree on this issue. And, thanks for Best Response! Sorry, I haven't been on myLot lately or I would have responded much sooner.
• Singapore
19 Nov 06
wow! i'm in a dilemma...one hand i wanna know, another hand i rather not.....but seriously, if he's cheating, i guess i will want to know and end the relationship. i think i deserve better than to be with a two timing jerk!
@kokopelli (4842)
• United States
20 Nov 06
you'd be better off indeed.
@carmat (2850)
• Canada
17 Nov 06
I would probably want to know, it would hurt but you can't go through life not knowing something so serious.
@kokopelli (4842)
• United States
17 Nov 06
true.
• United States
19 Oct 06
I would rather know because I more time & I'm gone & he wont see his daughter until he can grow up and be a real dad
@kokopelli (4842)
• United States
19 Oct 06
tnx 4d reply.
@sherinek (3323)
• United States
19 Oct 06
I definitely would wish to know which would be very heartbreaking though.
@kokopelli (4842)
• United States
19 Oct 06
it's better than prolonging the agony ;)
• United States
19 Oct 06
I would want to know. It would hurt tremendously but I deserve better than someone who could do that to me. I would leave him forever, no apologies or excuses. If he loved me enough he never would've cheated on me in the first place.
@kokopelli (4842)
• United States
19 Oct 06
tnx 4d reply.
• United States
19 Oct 06
I would of course want to know, he could be bringing me home all kind of diseases. If he I found out he was cheating then we would get a divorce no questions asked. If he loved me and cared about me like he says then he has no reason to go and stray.
@kokopelli (4842)
• United States
19 Oct 06
right :)
@missybal (4492)
• United States
18 Oct 06
Know!! and if he was I would leave in a heart beat.
@kokopelli (4842)
• United States
19 Oct 06
tnx 4d reply.
@neyna20 (33)
• United States
18 Oct 06
if i was in love with him then i would rather not know in the long run because that would crush me.
@kokopelli (4842)
• United States
18 Oct 06
tnx 4d reply.
@rmuxagirl (7568)
• United States
17 Oct 06
I would rather know if he is cheating so I can end the relationship. There is no way that I'm going be sharing my man or be played like a fool.
@kokopelli (4842)
• United States
17 Oct 06
right :)
@kesav010 (1686)
• India
17 Oct 06
true true...
@kokopelli (4842)
• United States
17 Oct 06
tnx.
@Catmadam (95)
• United States
15 Oct 06
I'd rather know for two reasons. 1. Other people are going to know and I'm going to look like a fool if I don't. 2. So that I can kick the sorry SOB out of the house and divorce his sorry butt.
@kokopelli (4842)
• United States
15 Oct 06
tnx 4d reply :)
@kataztrophy (1839)
• United States
14 Oct 06
I would like to know. If my mate was cheating on me, rather I break the relationship off than look like a fool.
@kokopelli (4842)
• United States
15 Oct 06
yup! tnx 4d reply.
• United States
14 Oct 06
I would rather know so I can dump his butt and move on with someone who will be true to me
@kokopelli (4842)
• United States
15 Oct 06
thanx 4d reply.