In Love with Friends Wife

India
February 24, 2007 6:22pm CST
Iam in love with my best friends wife, and she too loves me. I dont want to cheat my friend...Iam in a dilema...what shuld i do..Pls help guys suggest me.
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11 responses
@Rozie37 (15503)
• Turkmenistan
25 Feb 07
When you use the turn guys, it can also refer to girls, so I will take the liberty to tell you what I think. I know you don't need me to tell you that what you are thinking is wrong, so I wont go there. You should give some thought to how valuable your friendship is. If he caught you guys, are you prepared to lose him as a friend? Real friends are very hard to come by, I would never risk a friendship for a romp in the hay, it's just not worth it. Find another woman and leave your friends wife alone. If you are too tempted by this woman, maybe you should end the friendship. What has your friend done to deserve such a "friend" as you? Don't rationalize, be honest.
• India
25 Feb 07
Actually what is happening is that my friend is not caring for her, and she feels left alone, and therefore she is searching for someone on whom she could rely upon, open her heart. i tried to make her understand, but more I do it, the more she is falling for me. I feel pity for her. In the meantime, i too developed an attraction for her. it is a very strange situation..
@Commerce (647)
• India
25 Feb 07
You should not temptation overtake you. Since she is already married, it wont be a good idea to have relationships between you and your friend's wife.
@lucky_witch (2711)
• Philippines
25 Feb 07
I think yu have to stay away from her. First, think of your best friend... if there would be someone to betray him... it should not be YOU and his WIFE. I bet he trusdted you both nore tahn anybody. and how can you afford to do that to your best buddy? you think you'll be happy?
@sechsey (1836)
• Canada
25 Feb 07
For me, its not a dilemma. Its a question of who matters most to you or what is more important for you. Is it the "love" you feel for your best friend's wife? Or is it your value for your friendship between you and your best friend? Are you utterly sure that the woman is in love with you as well considering that she felt lonely because her husband doesnt care much for her? I hope if you choose the girl, that whatever feelings you have for each other should be true or something important.
@shoebdll (31)
• India
25 Feb 07
hmmmm, you are in love with your best friends wife, with what you have written that " i dont want to cheat me friend..." you shoul'nt be in a dilema, just froget what happend, if you really get out the situation i would suggest you to do is, just stop getting is situation where you interact with your friends wife, stop talking to her stop meeting her alone. That is only way to get out of this situation and not cheat your friend.
• United States
25 Feb 07
I would definitely suggest to stay away from your friends wife, the two of you never should have got emotionally involved with each other to this point. If she really does want to be with you instead of your best friend then she will divorce him for you and you should know that you will lose that friend forever, and whos to say she wouldn't do the same thing to you in the future, you would have to be scared to let her around any of your friends and that's no way to have a marriage.
@glenry86 (211)
• Australia
25 Feb 07
STAY AWAY FROM HER! if you are really his mate you would stay away from her, as the secert WILL come out sooner or later, friendship is much more important, and if you screw your mate over you will be left feeling guilty, besides it will all come back on you, is you friendship worth stuffing up and you being know as "a back stabbing a$$hole" really worth his wife? she is married mate leave her and move on!
@henry83 (18)
• Indonesia
25 Feb 07
Is it your truly best friends right? So i suggest you don't do that! Maybe you want to made relations with your friend's wife and hoped he didn't know about this. But it's impossible bro! Someday he will know about this and your relations with your best friend will be ruined. One thing we should know, find a best friends is very very very difficult. So become wise before you act!
@nishanity (1651)
• India
25 Feb 07
pack your bags and get as fas as possible from your friend and his wife... dont you knwo that you are jeopardising your friendship by having such dangerous feelings... ask yourself... who is mroe important? your pal or his wife??? dont throw away a good freindship just because u think that you are in love.. for all you know, it might just be an infactuation!
@Phlamingho (7831)
• Denmark
25 Feb 07
If you both feel strongly about each other then there's only two things you can do. Stop seing your frind / his wife. Or steal the wife. It's really as easy as that. Either way, you friendship is screwed. Sorry but that's the facts.
• Philippines
25 Feb 07
You will have to stay away from the wife. It will definitely be a bad thing to be pursuing your feelings considering how it is. Stop paying visits at their house so you will be able to avoid her and it will do you good a lot more if you put to a stop to all possibilities of getting in contact with her. If your friend will be puzzled at your reaction, you can jokingly tell him that you have to stay away because you feel attracted to his beautiful wife and you do not want it to be developed into something deeper.