Secrets ?

Denmark
February 26, 2007 10:18am CST
Do you keep some stuff secret from your partner or hubby? Do you always tell each other everything? Sometimes I like to keep some stuff for myself, I think it is necessary somehow, I like to know that there are some things that I donĀ“t have to share, it is wokrs both way. I think that if we did not have this, we would just be all over each other all the time and that could just damage our relationship. What about you? Do you tell each other every thing or have your own little secret garden of thougts?
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@vish246 (75)
• India
26 Feb 07
sectet of my life which i cant tell u or any one else, because it is stranger than infection so let it be the secret only.
• India
26 Feb 07
secrets r the hardest to keep... and once u share it with even ur most beloved and trusted one its bound to come out ... if not soon then latter... so beaware if u have a dark side of you.. trust me and keep it to urself...
@072006 (1279)
• India
26 Feb 07
Hey hi, welcome to mylot, well yeah i do tell everything to my partner, as i expect same from him so i also need to be like that, as what i feel, we do share everything between us, infcat i feel that transperency in any relation ship makes it stronger and make easy to trust each other in any thing, so we do share all , no secrets there..!!
@072006 (1279)
• India
26 Feb 07
Hey hi, welcome to mylot, well yeah i do tell everything to my partner, as i expect same from him so i also need to be like that, as what i feel, we do share everything between us, infcat i feel that transperency in any relation ship makes it stronger and make esay to trsut each other in any thing, so we do share all , no secrets there..!!
@brihanna (381)
• United States
26 Feb 07
No, I do not share everything with my husband. First because I do not think he would be interested. And yes, I need some of me that is only me. We have a limited time together on most days, and tend to discuss the kids and "us" stuff. I am probably more interested in his life than he with mine. But that is ok, sometimes, it is just the things he doesn't know that won't hurt him.
• United States
26 Feb 07
I think it is important to keep some things from your husband. I don't think they need to everything. But I also depends on what you are keeping from him. I wouldn't cheat on my husband so that wouldn't be a secret I would keep but there are things that I think are better left unsaid.