On what issue does your BF or GF fight the most with you???

@shalwani (760)
Pakistan
February 27, 2007 5:06am CST
What is the bone of contention between you and yur lover? One thing that always creates trouble? Is it his/her bad habit.. or food.. children..studies.. or what?
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10 responses
• Pakistan
27 Feb 07
my gf fights with me on the issue that i dont give her proper time ... even when i spend half of the day with her she does the same ... is that normal ... ? lol PEACE !!!
@lpipe0240 (1162)
• United States
28 Feb 07
You might want to think more of what you doing during that time you spend with her. If your watching TV or movies all day then that not really quality time. Sound like she wants you to interact with her more. Try playing a game or ask each other some questions to get discussion going. Try this one" If you could go on Vaction anywhere and take 5 people with you, where would you go and who would you take."
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@loisse21 (216)
• Philippines
27 Feb 07
my bf is such a jealous one..we've been together for more than 5 years now and still i feel that he isn't giving me the trust he said was there...i mean he always tells me how much trust he got for me but just a message from another guy,even if he was just a friend, would make him furious..
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@yanjiaren (9050)
27 Feb 07
well thank goodness..we have reduced our arguing to almost nill..we have worked out a method where we just help each other chill when signs of stress are due so that the pissy modes don't have time to form..so now i am quite lucky..before that it was the stress of being apart..which makes my hubby a bit frustrated and prety blonde women with 44dd boobs lol!!now i just make jokes with him when he 'window shops' and he loves me so much more..i am learning how to handle my own silly insecurities..
@ghopit (154)
• Indonesia
27 Feb 07
the third person is to be the common topic. my girlfriend is get jealous to my friends. my ex girlfrind is be the common topic too.
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• India
27 Feb 07
We always fight because she doesn't like if i m talking with some other girl,i m always saying her that trust me i ll never betray u but still she couldnt trust me
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@lpipe0240 (1162)
• United States
27 Feb 07
My wife and I agrue a lot about money. We've been talking about our finances and created a budget. It seems to help when you talk out the issues rather then consistantly argue about them.
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@chakotay (240)
• Romania
14 Mar 07
we get to figth becouse i not caller in evry hour this is most comon argue cause
@anonymili (3140)
14 Mar 07
Firstly I’d say that I’m talking here about my husband as opposed to my boyfriend or lover (no no I only have a husband not a bf or lover – one man is enough trouble to handle at a time LOL)! The thing that we argue most about or should I say the time we argue most is when we’re driving – he says I drive too fast and I say he drives too slow. He is one of the most cautious drivers I know and often other drivers beep at him for driving 25 miles an hour in a 30 zone. On the motorway he never goes over 70mph and that drives me mad. It just takes so long to get anywhere… If I’m driving he complains that I’m in too much of a hurry but from my point of view I’ve been driving for over 22 years with a clean record and no accidents. The only other thing we really argue about is the amount of time he takes to get ready when we’re going somewhere. We’ve been late to weddings because he’s spent so long getting ready! OMG! LOL regardless of all that I love him to bits ?
• India
28 Feb 07
my gf starts fighting with me on quite a strange issue..i am so fond of pulling her leg..and she has so much got used to it that wenever i don't,she thinks something serious has happened to me..that am avoiding her..and then we start fighting..but this is really so sweet to me..
• Brazil
28 Feb 07
Nowadays I'm single and available in the market..lol..but when I was dating there were problems that bothered me, the thing that really causes me pain is about organization I can not leave with mess, I don't feel happy and I couldn't do nothing right.