If your boss wants to borrow your 1 month brand new car, LET IT or DENY IT ????

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@xabimaru (340)
Malaysia
February 27, 2007 6:38am CST
Hi there. I have this situation happened to me this evening. My boss wanted to borrow my car for a while as he's car parked in the next block away. I give it out to him but in a VERY heavy hearted. I am a bit depressed now as i don't let anyone drive my car. If they really need it, i will drive it to their destination. Am i too obsess about my car? Is my action by letting him borrow my car is okay? What would you do in my shoe?
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• United States
28 Feb 07
Love that car, so cute! If you ever get into that situation again, here is what you say. I am sorry but my insurance will not allow me to let anyone drive the car but me. I am sure that if anything happened, you wouldn't want to pay for the damages. I let my friend drive my Mercedes, and she slammed into the back of a pickup truck and did $14,000 worth of damage. Because I allowed her to drive my car, (she had my permission), I was responsible for all the damages. Her insurance did not pay any of it. If she had taken it without my knowledge, she would have been responsible. Stupid I know, but very true. Don't let anyone drive your car unless you are prepared to pay if they have an accident.
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@xabimaru (340)
• Malaysia
5 Mar 07
I love that car too! Cute and expensive too lol. Aw i so sorry to hear your lost. It was really a load of money to spend that for the accident. Image if the money invested?? Ops sorry again but ya its really painfull rught. Don't worry i learned my lesson now. Thanks for sharing ya!!
@bondplok (139)
• Italy
28 Feb 07
I think i would have done just like you... yeah..you did the right thing..even if he wasn't your boss but a relative you should have done the same thing... but i think you are a little obsessed of your new car..but that's natural...(if you bought a mini..as in the photo...i love it..i think it is the best car..)
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@rusty2rusty (6751)
• Defiance, Ohio
28 Feb 07
No,I would not let my boss or anyone else drive my new car. I would offer to take the person whee they needed to go. But I would not let them drive the vehicle. Not with the many crazy drivers that live around here. Many days I go for a drive and wonder if I will make it home without ended in a wreck.
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@xabimaru (340)
• Malaysia
1 Mar 07
I can't seems to get to tell him "can i take you there?" !!! argh i so damn desperated.. i sooo love my car right now
@Jemina (5770)
28 Feb 07
I think your boss is inconsiderate and abusive of his position. Though he was your boss he should at least show respect to you and should have asked you instead to drive him to his car.
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@Jemina (5770)
28 Feb 07
I'm sorry, I was too annoyed by your boss's attitude that I forgot to answer your question. So, if I were in your place, maybe I could have told him/her that I have a plan to go out like malling or something else but I can drive him/her instead and drop him where he wants to go.
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@xabimaru (340)
• Malaysia
1 Mar 07
It's okay. You are not the only one feeling that. I am also annoyed by the situation. He seems like using his position as my boss aight? Well thanks for the enthusiasm ya...
• United States
28 Feb 07
I wouldn't let any one borrow my car new or old. They aren't insured to drive it. You would end up oweing alot of money if he had an accident and you would be out your car.
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@rienglass (248)
• Singapore
27 Feb 07
for me,i will just lend him.on the promise that if he damage it,i will be compensated.i dun care if he is the boss or not
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@xabimaru (340)
• Malaysia
27 Feb 07
You broke it, You pay it aight?? Do we need some sort of agreement?? ARGH!!
@xabimaru (340)
• Malaysia
1 Mar 07
I never thought giving out something you appriciated can cause a bad relationship with reatives and friend. Come to think about it, it's true. It begin with lending then come a bit hatered and late payment and then the break up as the payment if way too late.. Argh.. that's serious
• Philippines
28 Feb 07
i think you should allow him because he is your boss. you are not obssessed with your car but because it is new, you just feel excited and protective of it, and that is natural. good day
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@xabimaru (340)
• Malaysia
2 Mar 07
Then i aslo want to be boss as i can borrow my staff car too. LOL
@bhawnam (1436)
• India
27 Feb 07
look lending or not lending is entirely a personal opinion issue. If i am not very obsessive about my things then i can lend it and if i am obsessive then be it a new car or an old one if someone borrows it then it will be on our mind till we dont get it back in good shape. if even someone borrows an old car and returns it with a brand new dent or scratch, one would feel the same pain. if i were in your place i would not lend my car new or old to any one.
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@xabimaru (340)
• Malaysia
27 Feb 07
Means don't lend or borrow to anyone even the car is old and of cause brand new one!! I miss my baby....arghh
• United States
27 Feb 07
I also don't care to lend my car. Your boss put you in a bad position because he could make you suffer if you had said no. If he had a history of bad driving, or having "martini" lunches then I would have said no but I'm going in that direction I'll be glad to give you a lift.
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@xabimaru (340)
• Malaysia
28 Feb 07
I should have stick to the answer, "where you wanna go, i can take you there?" !!! but my mouth was so heavy that time i can't think and say any good reasons! Maybe he just want to test my loyalty to the company isn't??
@nfhs79 (861)
• Malaysia
28 Feb 07
I wont! Really I wont. Its very new and I scared anything happen to it. I cant imagine how I want to deal with anything happen to my new car! I could scream out loud! I think you should prepare anything happen to ur car. Insurance got it!
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@xabimaru (340)
• Malaysia
28 Feb 07
I sure have insurance! plus cover who ever drive the car! i want my car!!
@Myrrdin (3599)
• Canada
27 Feb 07
Your boss probably shouldn't have asked really. It was improper to do so. I mean if you guys are friends outside of work I would say well no big deal if you've done that sort of thing before, but if you don't lend your car to anyone then there should be no reason for you to lend it to him. I agree with the others in this thread offer alternatives such as giving him a lift.
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@xabimaru (340)
• Malaysia
28 Feb 07
I think he just wanna test drive or take the smell of the new car thing is it? (Positive thought to calm me down) lol I should have stick with the giving him a lift !!!!
• Canada
28 Feb 07
Your boss should nto be asking to borrow your car but since he did i would just tell him that nobody drives your car but you and that it is a quirk of yours. If his car is only a block away then he shoudl walk and get his. no you are not obsessed about it a car is a huge investment adn resonsiblity. I would say no adn adn explain why to him.
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@xabimaru (340)
• Malaysia
1 Mar 07
It is still okay for being obsessed about my car aight? It is huge spend for me to buy a brand new car!!! Thanks for understanding
• Pakistan
27 Feb 07
no way, i dont like to share my things with other becouse i know other people damn care about ur things while thay are using it, so i prefer to not to give my car to my friend and other people.
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@xabimaru (340)
• Malaysia
27 Feb 07
That's rite! That's why people trash their rented car lol. I don't give my car to anyone before!! This is the first and the last!!!
28 Feb 07
I understand how you feel. Sometimes its really hard to allow it but as long as your car is returned to you without a scratch. Next time think of a valid excuse not to let him borrow it again if you really dont want to. Sometimes being very easy is an advantage specially if you have made a favor to your boss. He will remember your kindness.
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@xabimaru (340)
• Malaysia
1 Mar 07
Thanks for understanding ya.. I am so depressed and FYI i have all the reasons in my head but i just can't let it out
@jhartana (1084)
• Australia
28 Feb 07
If I were in your shoe I would not borrow my car to my boss. I don't think it would hurt boss feeling towards me either. Don't think that he will fire you or promote you to higher position just because of your refusal towards him. You would've refuse him because you have the right for your car. I would have take him to his destination, no problem at all. Think of this way, if you let him borrow the car only just for short time then what happen if there's accident? Of course he would pay for the damages but you would not love your car the way as you love before because it's been crashed. Next time don't let anyone drive your car.
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@pagli84 (1850)
• Netherlands
28 Feb 07
i wouldnt let him! but then again, maybe he will fire you or something if you dont, but hopefully he's not that big of a jerk! i dont like anyone driving my car, even my parents! well, now i dont have a car anymore but when i did, i was very protective of it. it was my lil baby..the only thing i could really call my own.
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• India
28 Feb 07
I feel that, you must you must give your car if your boss borrow it from you. After all he is your boss. So there is no harm in that. Your boss is having the confidence that, if he borrow your car, you will not deny it. That is the reason he asked you.
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@cassidy22 (2974)
• United States
27 Feb 07
I would have told him no, or offered to go get his car for him or something. BUt hes probably NOT insured to drive your car and I would have told him just that. His car was parked a block away? That's a stupid excuse, he could have gone and got his own car. I think he just wanted to drive your new car.
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@xabimaru (340)
• Malaysia
27 Feb 07
I should have told him NO!!!! That's what i usually did!! And plus i should have taken him to his car!! I am so sick and sad!! I also think he just wanna test my car isn't? Well hope he enjoyed as that will be the LAST ONE !! Thanks cassidy!!
• India
28 Feb 07
this is a difficult situation but there is nothing u can do just let him borrow otherwise u will not be able to maintain that car
@vijaykar (17)
• India
28 Feb 07
if i would there i wont give my car because i have buy it for my itself not for others i would leave that job but i wont give up my car but however first i will try to handle the sutation i will try to neglate it frst if he ask again and again then i would tell the boss sorry i cant do it because it my own personal car i cant give it so plz sir ask for anyother thing but not car because its not a small thing its a car
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