how often should u say i love u to each other?

Philippines
February 27, 2007 7:41pm CST
is saying i love you every minute u r together do ur relationship any good?
8 responses
@pagibig (297)
• Philippines
28 Feb 07
When he was still in the country, (that's 2 days ago), we say i love you to each other every time we have to say goodbye. For example, when we talk on the phone and we have to end the call, we say i love you. every night before we go to sleep, every morning when we wake up and everytime we are together. Too much i love you is ok. as long as it stays i love you. some people might add something after i love you... something along the lines of 'i love you, if i can't have you nobody will' hahahaha
• United States
28 Feb 07
I think it's not just about how often you say it. I always tell my husband, don't say it if you don't mean it. I want the words "I love you" to mean something. My husband and I try to say it to each other a few times a day but whenever we say it, we mean it. Not just something to say for the sake of saying it.
@kapoet (270)
• Indonesia
28 Feb 07
Every time, if we can talk together we said that. But maybe depend on the situation. Sometimes we feel bad. And don't want to say that. But, on my life I always say that to many people who I loves them. It doesn't matter their a women or a man. hehheheh
• United States
28 Feb 07
I think telling each other every minute is over doing it, possibly giving a saying your obsest. when me and my boyfriend say it it might be out of random but not over doing it and we also say it each time we leave etc.
@webbuff (926)
• Philippines
28 Feb 07
its spontaneous, you really cant tell. for me its different.. some day when i miss her the most i say a lot of "i love yous" yes its good in a relationship but it just spontaneous.
@Mitzi72 (20)
• United States
28 Feb 07
I feel you should say it when you feel it. If it is being said out of habit or just because you think you should it loses it's meaning. Showing love is more importanat that just the words.
@hartnsoul (558)
• Philippines
28 Feb 07
I don't really count how often my hubby and I exchange "I Love You's" It has been a spontaneous act of hugging while we pass each other inside the house, a simple wink and a fly away kiss, or simply staring at each other and mouthing I Love You when in public. Of course at night we kiss each other Goodnight and say I love You and then in the morning when he's kiss me goodbye before he goes to work. It's not obligatory but we simply feel it come out of us in words and deeds. :)
@decimus785 (1419)
• Aruba
28 Feb 07
You cant tell how often you have to say i love,your not obligated to say i love u,the words just comes out at the right time.