A Girl said "I LOVE U" 4 me!!!

India
February 28, 2007 11:10pm CST
A girl proposed me,..[:)] but I'm still 19yrs (she is 17),..thiz is not da time 2 love. There are so many things 2 do,...[:)] wht do u say???
4 responses
@ajinomoto23 (1057)
• Philippines
1 Mar 07
Girls in the old times are shy. Today girls are the first to express their emotions. It is the girl who come to the house of the boys. Unlike before the girl cannot even say her feelings to the boys, she has to wait for the boys to make the first move. My friend and my grandmother - both got married at the age 14.
• Philippines
1 Mar 07
Well lucky for you that a girl proposed to you. But you should need to prioritize. Tell her if the two of you are truly inlove time can wait. Anyway the two of you are just too young. Don't hate me but I think your feelings at that age is not real, its just an infatuation.
• United States
1 Mar 07
Hey Cool_.... I think i understand your problem, before i met my husband he had a girlfriend for 31/2 yrs and she wouldn't wait so she proposed then when he said he wanted to think about it she gave him an choice-yes-or-no! all this on x-mas eve. bad huh? i'm not a girly girl-but i think it's wrong to push or to propose for that matter if your the girl. #1 girls know along time before they grow up wether or not they want to get married and guys they have to think about it and just do it when they get the itch. in other words when your not pushed you'll make a better decision about getting married-i got hitched when i was 19 to a 32 yr old man and i have struggled to fight for what i always wanted. dreams i had years before he came along and it's a battle most of the time. make sure you have what you want or close to it and if she really loves you and you love her putting a ring on and when will not matter. I think you should make sure love is there and if it is have a quiet heart to heart, say I Love You baby- but there are some things i have to get done or get straight before i settle down. no matter what it is tell her!!!! if it's sewing your wild oats and party in the pool of girls tell her your not sure she's the life-time one- if it's not that then tell her your not secure enough yet to take on a marriage yet. It is more work to be married than not-TRUST ME ON THIS!
• United States
1 Mar 07
That feels great, doesn't it? I think you are wise, though, to wait. You can love each other without getting married right away.