Do you think love can change you a lot?

@muntaha (376)
Bangladesh
March 2, 2007 10:19pm CST
Love can change you a lot. Do you believe that? Has it happened to you in your life? Tell us your story please.
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5 responses
@reykja (121)
3 Mar 07
Yeah love can definitely change you. Suddenly the world feels like a happier place to be, feels like there is more purpose in life. Or, if love has hurt you, you'd feel so down and depress and not being your active self... I've seen my boyfriend changed a lot. His friends told me in the beginning, he kept telling them that he does not want anything serious with anyone, was very independent. No could have thought that he now wants the relationship at a serious level. Love is rather powerful I'd say.
@zuptzai (103)
• Philippines
3 Mar 07
I believe love can change a lot. Love has changed me. I reorganized my life, my priorities changed, and as a person, my attitude changed for the better.
@pillusch (1149)
• Mexico
3 Mar 07
There are two things, one is to love, and the other one is to be in love. From your post it's not really clear which one you are referring to. To be (or to fall) in love, is a nice experience, fleeting though as it may be. But it doesn't have any substance, because you are basically in love with the image you have of the other person. 'To love' I find extremely difficult. I know through literature that it is the only thing that can save this world, but nonetheless, it is an art (I recommend Erich Fromm http://webspace.ship.edu/cgboer/fromm.html "The Art of Loving") which I haven't fully learned yet.
@cherriemae (3375)
• Philippines
3 Mar 07
Yah, love can really change me. All of me..If i'm in love, my eyes has different spark, my smile is different, i always have a light day, i always think of good things that makes me happy, i think of him everyday, every hour and every minute. It makes me alive and happy. I love to do household chores.Love to hear love songs..Ohhh!! love change me and it's good to be in love..
@zemlene (354)
• Philippines
3 Mar 07
YES I BELIEVE THAT LOVE CAN REALLY CHANGE YOU. iT CAN BRING OUT THE BEST AND WORSE IN YOU. wHEN I'M IN LOVE... I AM INCOHERENT, I DID THINGS WHICH IS VERY UNBECOMING AND VERY NOT LIKE ME AT ALL.