At What Age You Should Allow Your Daughter To Fall In Love?

Malaysia
March 3, 2007 11:02pm CST
I have two daughter aged 4 & 8. So far they have been good and did not created any problems to my family. However one day when fetching them from school time (about 1.00 pm) I saw one couple about 12~13 yrs old doing something very distracting. I know at that age there is no love to be called. May be it's just for fun??? And that makes me started thing that these two kids still wearing school uniform. Do their parents realized what is going on? I can't comments much because I have daughters to take care too.
4 responses
• Canada
4 Mar 07
I think "fall in love" is the wrong choice of words for this. At that age, 12 and 13, they are too young to know what love is, and what they are experiencing is pure LUST. Love can only be born of mature relationships between mature people, lust, the act of "wanting it NOW" can come about at any time. I agree with you that their parents need to keep a closer watch on them.
• Malaysia
4 Mar 07
You are right. Most of parents would to really take a closer watch on their kids. But most of the times this problem occur because in the modern world where they are having both working parent.
• Malaysia
4 Mar 07
You are right. Most of parents would to really take a closer watch on their kids. But most of the times this problem occur because in the modern world where they are having both working parent.
• United States
4 Mar 07
I ahve 2 girls 3 and 5 I know I can't stop them from falling in love it just happens, but dating where i allow them to be alone with a boy maybe around 15-16 and hope I have raised them to be smart.
• Malaysia
4 Mar 07
Good Luck to you and may you have a happy family. I think everybody deserved to be in good family living and wanted to raised their kids to the most successful level. But sometime there are unforseen circumstances that hinder us from achieving what we always wanted.
• Pakistan
5 Mar 07
I would say closer to your kids is the best solution. And engage them in some other activities instead of watching TV (even cartoons these days are really not good for kids). I personally think its media that created such things that made life difficult
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• Indonesia
5 Mar 07
when she at college.absolutely