How can i Improve on winning the Heart of my girl
• United States
6 Mar 07
This is a tough one for me. You want to be charming, helpful and confident. You want to do subtle romantic things - like rose petals in a scented envelope, with no name. Looking her in her eyes when she talks to you and really listening. But don't go too far. Don't let her fall in love with a person that is not really you. You won't be able to keep up the pretense for the rest of your life, trust me. Word to the wise, you cannot "make" someone fall in love with you. You do not "win" your mate's heart. These are dangerous waters to tread in because you are mixing ego with emotion. Never a good thing for a man to do without REALLY being cautious. Instead of fantasies, spend a little energy on understanding what it is you admire about her, what kind of a man do you want her to see you as, what can you add to her life? Ask yourself, would I be happy just to be her friend? If the answer is no, what you are feeling might be passion, not love. There is nothing wrong with passion, you just don't want to confuse it with love. I don't mean to lecture you, just want to give you something to think about. Good luck.
7 Mar 07
Zendove, you are too much, i really would commend you on all your comments as they are going a long way to answering my questions. I will recommend you to try and get an organisation where you answer some kind of marital or any question relating to life iossues, we both can make that up , smiles God bless you and improve your knowledge about life