what if your husband wants you to produce more than 10 kids?

Philippines
March 6, 2007 8:16am CST
in our country birth control doesnt really matter, only few people who exercise that, it depends on the family, my husband wants to have a big family, he's planning to have more than 10 kids with me,,, what should i do? im gonna give birth every year?
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6 responses
• United States
9 Mar 07
If my husband told me he expected 10 kids out of me, I'd hand him the divorce papers. I'm not having any kids, ever. He can go find a worthless baby-making machine, because I'm not one.
• Philippines
9 Mar 07
really? you can do that? even you love him more?
• United States
9 Mar 07
I don't care who he is, I refuse to be degraded into nothing but a means of reproduction. I am a woman and an individual. I am not something to be used for any reason. Especially not as a baby machine.
• Philippines
10 Mar 07
you dont like kids?
@liranlgo (5748)
• Israel
10 Mar 07
well i think if he wants more than 10 kids should tell him that's fine with you..and he can have as much kids as he wants..he only has to find a way to get pregnent..lol now seriously you two are partners you should be able to talk about the subject it is your body and you should decide when you want to get pregnent. so sit with him and have a talk i am sure he will understand do you want 10 kids? if you do maybe you will talk to him about bring a kid every 2 years and not every year..think about that
• Philippines
10 Mar 07
maybe he'l agree for the gap of pregnancy, every two years,,, thnx..
@sahira (1072)
• Philippines
7 Mar 07
For me why not!so long as you are capable of giving birth every year,i mean you are healthy,and if the husband is wealthy that he can raise a big family,i think there's no proble..Big family is happy.
• Philippines
9 Mar 07
u have o point... big family is happy
@webbuff (926)
• Philippines
6 Mar 07
I think you should need to sit down and discuss these problem to your husband.. this is not something you guys like to do.. imagine 10 kids.. your husband should also consider the financial impact and your health in this situation... im sure he will respect your decision.
• Philippines
9 Mar 07
thats true...
@Clairec23 (136)
• Ireland
10 Mar 07
There is no chance I'd agree to that and even less chance of me giving birth every year. I have 2 children, if I have more it'll be if and when I decide to. If my partner tried to push me into having ten kids, he can leave and find some other eejit that would put themselves through that.
@Bangalorean (1283)
• India
7 Mar 07
Tell him that you are healthy and can produce not 10 but 20 kids..........but will he able to sustain them all equally