Preperaton for Adult Living Program for Young People

United States
March 6, 2007 11:11am CST
Here's the deal. A friend of mine in her 60s has taken her grandson (17 years old) to raise after he has spent 5 years of being in lock up in a group facility. (A state school). She is the only family the boy has left. He has been out for less than a year and naturally wants to go to college and begin to make his own life. His case worker has contacted the grandmother and wants to get him enrolled in a PAL program; Preperation for Adult Living. Does anyone know about this kind of program? What do they prepare him for? What is the program based on? Does anyone have any advice for me to give her?
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@SageMother (2277)
• United States
6 Mar 07
Since she is his only family she should go ahead and enroll him in the program. The PAL should teach him to handle money and such. If he has spent most of his last few years in a group home, he has little idea of how to handle himself in the real world without alot of supervision. Your friend should make it clear to the agency, though, that this program had better not interfere with his college aspirations. Sometimes these programs will disrupt that and create more problems in the long run. If your friend can analyze the program before enrolling him, that would be best. She might need your help though. I am sure you will be willing to help her out.
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• United States
6 Mar 07
Thanks SageMother for your help. I will pass the information along. I AM willing to help her out as much as I can. Thanks again for the good advice.
@rhinoboy (2129)
6 Mar 07
Being in a different country, I can't speak with any knowledge or authority. I do, however think I know the type of thing you're talking about. The course probably aims to teach him how to manage his affairs in the basic apects of adult life. This should enable him to managethe day-to-day practicalities of life, like paying utility bills, managing a bank account, finding a job etc. These courses are often run for people with 'learning difficulties' (like downs-syndrome etc) in a gentler way, so they can lead their own lives. It sounds like an opportunity for him to learn the type of things that parents would normally teach a grown up child before they move out. It should be a good opportunity for this young guy.
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• United States
6 Mar 07
I hope it's a good thing rhinoboy. He doesn't have any learning disability, yet, since he's been locked away from the real world for such a long time and he's so young, the program might help him adjust, helping her help him to become a positive adult. At least I hope so.