Frustrated

@ondrea (20)
United States
March 6, 2007 2:17pm CST
Why is it soooo difficult to find a descent spouse these days? Every guy I meet, regardless of age, is still very immature with no intention of ever taking on the responsibility of a man OR they have no idea how to treat a women! I don't understand!! Is this from poor parenting? What is going on? Are their ANY goom men left?!?!
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@speakeasy (4215)
• United States
7 Mar 07
Start checking out older guys who are more settled. They have already sowed their "wild oats" and are ready to settle down. It also sounds like you may be looking in the wrong places. Check out the guys at church and at the places where they actually work, stay away from bars and casinos unless you are checking out the guys that work there. Try places like match.com. These people who are looking for someone to settle down with; not just a "hookup".
@ondrea (20)
• United States
10 Mar 07
I don't go to clubs, bars, casinos....but it seems that everyone around me still does that! Maybe its the area I live in because everyone is still in "party mode", even the older guys and I find this very unattractive and childish!! I agree with you on the church thing, I started going back to church last week, maybe descent people there. Thanks for the feedback!
@yanjiaren (9050)
7 Mar 07
There is an excess of over 40 million unmarried Chinese men that need a wife!!!! 'Shall i fuind one for you lol? I marriedone and they make good husbands. That would solve both your problem and the demographic problem China faces of too many men not enough women. See? Problem solved!!!