Dating but not in love?

@ipisman (144)
March 7, 2007 5:13am CST
I have been dating a girl for a while She is a great person, she treats me very well, I do the same for her (she loves it), we have a lot of fun together, and I learn a lot. I have been with many girls, but never had a proper girlfriend. I have asked this question to many people everybody tells me not to leave her,because I should enjoy time with her. Should I leave her? Should I tell her I am not in love with her but I want to stay with her?
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@vicky19810 (1601)
• China
26 Mar 07
in my opinion,i advise that you should leave her,or she will be hurted much more in future,except that you can make sure that you will fall in love with her soon.otherwise,you should tell her directly that you can not love her,but you want to be good friend with and she must see clearly the difference between lover and friend .
• United States
26 Mar 07
I think what's more important is to ask her what she is looking for in your relationship and how she feels. Perhaps she is happy having a casual relationship and enjoying it for what it is. But, if she thinks it is something serious that is committed and she does have feelings for you, then you owe it to her to be honest about your feelings and let her find someone who is willing to love her and give her the relationship she wants. Bottom line is don't mislead her and have a talk with her about everything and go from there.
@deebomb (15322)
• United States
7 Mar 07
If you both enjoy spending time together I see nothing wrong in your continuing to date. Just be very careful that you say or do nothing to lead her on. that is any thing to make her think that you are in love with her. If you feel that she is falling in love with heer you need to be honest with her. Over time you just might fall in love with her. You need to listen to your own heart and in this matter not listen to others.