Is it hard to be happy?
29 May 07
You're right doreentduran. Maybe because that things that make us sad are valuable to us. And letting go would be very hard. A friend once sent a txt message to me saying "strive to be happy, it is not just a feeling,it's a choice".
• United States
8 Mar 07
Yes, this is true. When somethings happens, like hurt feelings, we allow bitterness to set in our heart. Not a first, at first we are hurt, that hurt builds. Then we get offened, offense against others builds into bitterness, and we refuse to forgive. Unforgiveness in our hearts is something God says is wrong. Forgiveness isn't always an easy thing to give but if we want peace inside, we must. This doesn't mean we have to have coffee with those who have hurt us, but it release their hold on us...so we can move on an be happy regardless of what they are doing, or saying....