Do you cheat on your husband?

United States
March 9, 2007 12:20am CST
We like to believe that we are satisfied with our lives and marriages. We'd like to believe we've done the best in choosing our partners and are the happiest we could be. But, for one split second, has it ever crossed your mind? If given the opportunity would you cheat on your husband? If you would cheat on him, would it be for revenge, for unsatisfaction, for a good time? What do you think?
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12 responses
@mrbranan (1012)
• United States
10 Mar 07
I think when you have been married as long as I have you have thought about it at least once. Not for revenge but just to know what it would be like. I love my husband and would never cheat on him. Sometimes I just wonder what I missed. I have never been with another man. I don't mean just since I have been married I mean ever.
• United States
11 Mar 07
My husband and I have both only been with one other person aside from each other. Sometimes I feel like you.. I wonder what I may have missed. Not because I don't love him, but because really before I met him, I was pretty new to the whole relationships/dating game.
@lpipe0240 (1161)
• United States
9 Mar 07
It has crossed my mind of how easy it would be to cheat on my wife. Then I think of the after effects and possible divorse and such. It is not worth it.
• United States
9 Mar 07
It's refreshing to know that there are still husbands out there like you!
13 Mar 07
Athough not married but been with my other half for 15 years there is no way I could cheat
@ash134 (4)
• Malaysia
12 Mar 07
Back in high school,I had a major crush on my best friend and it remained for a very long time.We stayed friend and lately,we started to get close and he said he regret that we didn't get together,that we should go out sometimes-as friends.I don't know what to say..I know its all wrong but I still think he's my true love. p/s:we only chatted in instant msgr as he's staying abroad.But,he's coming back really soon and I dont know what to do..=(
• Canada
11 Mar 07
Their is NO way I would cheat on my husband. He is the perfect husband, and father. I love him with all my heart and I couldn't even picture myself with anyone else.
• Philippines
10 Mar 07
I know most of us girls are too loyal for our husbands but the real question is despite our love and trust for them... would they be loyal to us always? Cheating is not a question because I know if girls are preempted they'd always find a way to get even... So guys don't dare us...
• United States
9 Mar 07
I have never cheated on mine. I dont think that I would have the heart. It would destroy me if I found out that he did it to me, so I don't wan to put him through that kind of torture. I love him too much to do something like that. If for some reason I did decided to do that, it would have to be for a very good reason.
@mrsturner (519)
• Canada
9 Mar 07
I would never cheat on my husband. I've never even met someone else that I would want to sleep with since we got together. Even in my fantasy life he is in the starring role.
• United States
9 Mar 07
There is no way that I could cheat on my husband I love him to much since the day we got together I have not even looked at another man like that that is how I know I have found the one I was ment to be with I have never loved another man like I do my husband and just the thought of the pain it would bring him hurts me I would never do anything thing to hurt him I love him far to much
@777330975 (332)
• Sri Lanka
9 Mar 07
it did cross my mind once, where I was in a depressed state of afffairs in the home ground. Before going for it, I stopped for a second an thought the consequenses.. And I felt it was not worth it.. I love my hubby so go for another I am glad that I made that desicion, I am really happy now
@mgmagana (3621)
• United States
9 Mar 07
no, and i have been given that opportunity. i would never cheat on my husband, but if he cheated on me and if we stayed together i wouldn't hesitate to do it out of revenge, so it's better if we would break up!
@Anakata2007 (1787)
• Canada
9 Mar 07
I don't cheat and I wouldn't cheat. Even if I was attracted, which I have never been, to another man, since I met my husband. It's just not right. I couldn't look at myself in the mirror and like myself. I wouldn't deserve my husband if I cheated on him.