is there a limit for love

@kavi112 (232)
India
March 10, 2007 12:37am CST
is there a limit for love.. is it that loving someone so much cause trouble..but sometimes you will have no control on ur feelings.. and u get to love someone so much...is this ok
7 responses
• India
11 Mar 07
it depends on how much the person u love understands about u.... if he loves u equally or even more then u love can also be limitles.. this will only lead to a very understanding and loving relatinship.... but at times this should not stop u from doin u r responsiblities towards the that person tat should also be kept in mind equally..
@catcai (1057)
• Philippines
11 Mar 07
I dont exactly understand what you mean by limit. But from living my life, i have learned that you shouldnt love a person so much as this will only lead to dissapointments and false hopes. Always leave something for your self. Love yourself more that the other person, make sure that you value yourself more because that is the only thing that you will be left with when all your special someones' leave you behind- yourself. In this way you will have control over your feelings and reduce the possibility of being hurt. There was a song entitled "too much love will kill you" and it is kinda true, it was true on my part- i have loveda guy so much more than myself, my family and even God! i committed sins of idolatry because of him... what did i get for loving him too much? he left me!- he got me pregnant and said that he didnt love me enough to marry me- the man whom ive spent 5 yrs of my life loving- has rejected me at a time when i needed him the most. it ruined me so much that im still hurting until now. Then i realized, that life isnt supposed to be like that, there should be balance, and above all- if there's someone that you should love and trust with all your heart- i think it should be the higher power that you believe in- your God, or Jesus, Allah, Buddah, the Godesses whoever you have your faith into- The bottom line is that- never love too much to lose yourself in it...
@laarni080 (127)
• Philippines
11 Mar 07
Of course there is a limit in loving, you should not give all, leave something for yourself, and you should always control yourself in temptation, use your mind not always your heart.
• Philippines
10 Mar 07
Yes, there is a limit in love.i had an experience that I hurted my boyfriend but I can't felt because I was very much love him to the extent he broke with me because he can't explain his feelings so that he did to berk up with me.
• India
10 Mar 07
May be love is limitless but I genuinely feel that loving someone madly does not mean that you give away the key of your emotions, feeling & happiness to that person. True Love should not create trouble...sorry dont want to hurt your feelings but pls chk is it an infatuation?? No control means No balance in life & that will lead to frustration & pain.. Hope it satisfies your question..
@decimus785 (1421)
• Aruba
10 Mar 07
I think it has his limit,when you exceed that limit it can have serious consequences,example if your boyfriend or girlfriend dontr want to be with you anymore,your gonna react aggresivly and you may make as stupidity you may hurt your own partner.When you love a person tooo much you are willing to do anything so you dont lose him or her.
@Tetchie (2933)
• Australia
10 Mar 07
Love is like fire, and fire burns. The amount of love you give is measured in kind by what someone is able to receive. And vise versa the amount of love you receive is measured by what you are capable of holding. When people fall in love, love burns emotional wounds and sometimes those wounds are difficult to heal. You will see how when someone is not capable of returning to you what you give out to them, it is not their essence speaking but the wounded part that still suffers from memories of being unloved. This is the paradox and this is what causes suffering - the inability to open and hold love unconditionally. Love is a never ending, unlimited force.