Do you dread your wife??

dread or love!!! - i love my wife
@mimpi1911 (25475)
India
March 10, 2007 1:54am CST
Why do some men have to be so edgy when comes to their wives?? Are they fearful or do they do it just to cover up clandestine stuff? Is worshipping, in a way, speaks of infidelity?? Why are they so fidgety to surrender their phones to wives?? So many questions!!! Well, one last one, why does WILDERR have to have all his posts begin with and end in his wife?? Is this awe or fright? LOL…….
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@rainbow (6763)
10 Mar 07
I have no idea, Shrek would never post anything about me, even if he knew how, lol. He doesn't talk about me much to my knowledge, just expects me to run around after him, I do know he has no fear of me and does his best for me and the boys although he is always too buzy to spend time with us he thinks he's there. Maybe it's because they love us so very much, men are strange sometimes, I gave in trying to figure them out years ago and truly beleive most of them have an inner 6 year old that maintaines the majority of control over them.
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@mimpi1911 (25475)
• India
12 Mar 07
that is just great rainbow. lucky you! even i believe most men inside are like children and they want a lot of pamperings and care most of the times. however, they act remarkably maturedly as and when situation wants them to be. i get that you have a nice,close knit family where my post has no validity and i am really glad that it is not. god bless
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@rainbow (6763)
13 May 07
Thank you so much for giving me your best responses, men are strange creatures really but make nice pets, a family with a man, dog, cat and kids seems whole to me somehow.
@mimpi1911 (25475)
• India
14 May 07
you just made me laugh sweetie. LOL..
@bluewings (3857)
10 Mar 07
Well, if there is love and trust in a relationship ,then I don't see why anyone would be afraid to open up.Recently,I read on internet that some people like to keep a few possessions to themselves, even when it comes to their loved ones.I respect that, but that probably isn't the way I think.I understand proprietary informations that one might feel uncomfortable to share ,but not personal informations.Once we start raising such barriers ,we should be expecting the same and with time ,it becomes harder to communicate openly.In the absence of heart to heart communication ,every relationship suffers,be it a couple in love or friendship.I am not sure if worshipping one's spouse is always a coverup for infidelity,but a guilty conscience can inspire us to do things we normally won't.However,there could be relationships where the spouse truly admires his/her partner and says it in as many words or goes out of his way to make her feel special.As for the mobiles,personally,I don't see enough reasons to make a mobile exclusive.But again,there could be something I don't know. Disclaimer:These are opinions of a bachelor and shouldn't be held against the person.:-P
@mimpi1911 (25475)
• India
12 Mar 07
i really appreciate. i think, love, trust, understanding and respect are the key words in making a marriage work. as long as these are there, the mobile stuff, petty miss calls and other stuffs, even healthy flrting, do not really come into account. the transition from bachelorhood to married status is important, in the sense that we cannot really afford to indulge in stuff, which had been apparently petty in singlehood days, after being tied the knot. the same could be the reason for factions.
@mimpi1911 (25475)
• India
12 Mar 07
i really appreciate and what I have said is but a generalized opinion, where exception does prove the fact. i think, love, trust, understanding and respect are the key words in making a marriage work. as long as these are there, the mobile stuff, petty miss calls and other stuffs, even healthy flirting, do not really come into account. the transition from bachelorhood to married status is important, in the sense that we cannot really afford to indulge in stuff, which had been apparently petty in singlehood days, after being tied the knot. the same could be the reason for factions. Many ppl are more verbal and are quite exuberantly explicit in their exhibition of love and care, as you have rightly pointed out but some do things out of the way, which arise our suspicion. PS: the opinion of a bachelor is most unbiased as they do not have to keep up with both the sides and they are estranged with intricacies.