Younger men more romantic and caring than older men?

@joyce959 (1562)
Philippines
March 10, 2007 12:21pm CST
In a relationship or marriage, who is more caring and romantic, younger men or older men? I've noticed that in a new or starting relationship / marriage, the men bring flowers to their gf's/wife, open doors for their partners, treats their partners to lunch/dinner, show, movie... but as the relationship grows older and the men too becomes older, the wife is often taken for granted. Do you have the same observation, or it depends?
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5 responses
• United States
10 Mar 07
i dont think that age really matters for some it is the younger man that is more romantic and to others it is the older man but for me i have tried both and i prefer the younger because he is more understanding and doesnt expect you to be like mom. I was married to a guy that was 8 years older than me and all he kept telling me was that i was a waste of his time, that his mom was so much better and how i should be like her, but now my husband is 8 years younger and there is alot more romance (no he doesnt bring home flowers and that junk) but he cares genuinely for me and wants to be there, he takes care of all aspects of life not just his wants. Some others might have had bad experiences the other way around.
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@joyce959 (1562)
• Philippines
11 Mar 07
Yes, you are correct, age doesnt really matter. To some,the younger men are more caring and romantic, to others, it is the older men. I guess it really depends on the character of the person, each one has different attitude and qualities. Thanks for your response.
• United States
15 Mar 07
i love to discuss love and romance. my husband and i are so commited to each other and the romance is sweeter and sweeter all the time
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@cybergwen (158)
• United States
10 Mar 07
In my experience...the younger man may seem more romantic, giving etc, but it is usually because they want something... Older men are more caring when it really matters. It is also a more sincere caring. They do things because they honestly love you, not just to blind you with their attention.
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@joyce959 (1562)
• Philippines
11 Mar 07
Thanks for sharing your point of view.
@kavi112 (233)
• India
10 Mar 07
its not like that... in young age its all new..its required that u show love by giving flowers etc... but as we grow ..when having a good relationship.. nothing of such materialistic things are needed to show our love...it becomes a language.. one which only two of them can understand
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@joyce959 (1562)
• Philippines
11 Mar 07
I got your point. Thanks for responding
• Canada
3 May 07
I think that age doesnt matter in romance and love. There are some older men who are romatic to their mates but there also also younger men who are more romantic. I guess it depends on the men, on their attitude, upbringing, and capacities. It also depends on the situation of relationship I guess.
@giregla (148)
• Philippines
10 Mar 07
the most caring is the one who is in love, age does not matter.
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