your husband found a lover..and he wants her to come and live at your house what

@liranlgo (5748)
Israel
March 12, 2007 2:29am CST
will you do? i mean you are with him alote of years you still love him very much he says he loves you but fell in love with another women also.. he says it is pretty normal after all this years and now he wants you..all three to live together what would you do????????
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@adela56 (183)
• Philippines
12 Mar 07
if he is my husband and he damned well found a lover he can damn well live with his lover and ill damn well live my own life.how stupid for any girl to live in one house togethr with your hb's fling..
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@liranlgo (5748)
• Israel
12 Mar 07
o.k. adela you stated your point very clearly thank you for the response:)
• United States
12 Mar 07
I would have to say if my husband ever said that to me I would leave his a** there is only room in a relationship f two people have you ever heard the phrase three's a crowd there is now way I would live my life in that kind of relationship although every one has there own opions
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@liranlgo (5748)
• Israel
12 Mar 07
thank you spider for your response:)
@lols189 (4797)
12 Mar 07
i would say no. if he has supposedly loved me for many years then why would he want a lover. i wouldnt live like that. i would just give him an option of me or the lover and its choice
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@liranlgo (5748)
• Israel
12 Mar 07
thank you lols for your response:)
@Bangalorean (1282)
• India
12 Mar 07
Would there be limit for his falling love? Today, he has fallen in love with one , tomorrow it would b with another and so on............ i would leave the place and make a accomodation for his other loves, but would not spare him in the court of law
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@liranlgo (5748)
• Israel
12 Mar 07
thank you bangalorean:)
@sidoney (1033)
• Jamaica
12 Mar 07
well a few people can deal with such situation you should ask your self if you can deal with it and based on your relation ship will it last if the new girl moved in or will it last if you refuse based on your answer you should speak with your husband as such a thing can make you into an emotional wreck you should start packing if this is not what you got married for as a marriage is a union between a man and a woman not a union between a man and two woman don't let him tell you that it is the norm let him know that if its the norm for him it is not the norm for you
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@liranlgo (5748)
• Israel
12 Mar 07
thank you very much sidoney for your response but with a little change..he should pack not i..:)
• Philippines
12 Mar 07
that is just one crazy idea that if any woman agrees to, i think, that woman is either plainly stupid or simply blinded by a worthless love. if the husband wants another woman, let him choose between the wife and the other woman. if he decides to choose the other, i think the wife should let him go. being in a threesome, living together in the same house, sharing 1 man... that's nuts! we have about 6 billion people on earth. there's bound to be at least a billion other guys who would be worth having than an unfaithful husband. a guy who could cook up an idea of living with his wife and another woman is not worth having, not worth loving, not worth sharing your life with.
@liranlgo (5748)
• Israel
12 Mar 07
thank you for the response mylesnarvaez :)
• United States
12 Mar 07
I think it's totally WHACK! Not at all normal. What is he thinking, that you'll go along? Tell him he has to make a choice (if you are prepared for either answer).
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@liranlgo (5748)
• Israel
12 Mar 07
thank you tallpaulno:)