Am I the only person who did this???

@arvee17 (730)
Philippines
March 13, 2007 6:41am CST
Back when I was young and full of confidence on how i looked like. I tried dating 2 guys at the same time. I had a long distance relationship with a guy I was with for a year at that time. he was studying in a different city and we only saw each other like once in a blue moon. I felt so lonely at that time that my friends were telling me to end it up and just get another boyfriend that would make me happy. I was head over heels in love with that guy that even if we didn't see each other, i was willing to wait for him. But then, another guy came along and he was so cute. so we started going out and he became my second boyfriend... One time, my second boyfriend visited my house and we were just hanging around. To my surprise, my first boyfriend called up and told me that he was home and now coming to my house. I was so petrified because the two guys might meet and i would be in a huge trouble. I convinced my second boyfriend to go home even though he just came. And I was successful. The funny thing was that they were only 15 to 20 minutes apart when my second boyfriend left and my first boyfriend came to my house. A couple of months later I broke up with my second boyfriend and I stayed with my first boyfriend for four years. Until to this day, nobody knew what i did... So the question is guys and girls, have you ever cheated on your partner without your partner knowing???
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@sunshine4 (8709)
• United States
13 Mar 07
I have. I think that you will find most people have dated 2 people at the same time, especially back when they were younger. Live and learn.
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@arvee17 (730)
• Philippines
13 Mar 07
Totally agree with you!
@wmg2006 (5386)
• United States
15 Mar 07
Well I have not exactly cheated so to speak. I have dated several people at one time, but I was not attached to any of them. I really liked dated a lot of different ones at the same time. I felt so free and was able to enjoy different personalities. I could never cheat, it would take way too much effort for me to keep one from seeing the other. I would be too worried all the time.
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• United States
14 Mar 07
lol. that would be very scary that the two boyfriends would run into each other. i think having two relationships at one time would be very stressful. I have never had two relationships at the same time, i didnt want to put myself under that kind of stress.
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@shadow9 (238)
• Romania
13 Mar 07
nop ... never tryed it, probably never will ... it has been done on me but i found out ... i don't really know anyone to have gotten away whit it so good job :P
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@Bangalorean (1283)
• India
13 Mar 07
Yes in the intial days of dating, till I found the exact partner for life.
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@gabs8513 (48716)
• United Kingdom
2 Apr 07
There is nothing wrong with that as you where not sure what was going on, you where lonely, you had to find out how you felt about him which is a good thing to do before you marry So do not worry about it, and just make sure you have made the right choice